questions about sex.....?

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Carly

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im 15, and i have like the same concerns too! i havent done it, but heres my advice:
u should do it when ever u feel comfurtable enough with ur boyfriend. dont do it if u think its gunna be supper wierd after. and as for "where" try to plan it out so that either his parents arent home or so that urs arent home. okay, about the pregnant thing i wouldnt worry to much, just use a condom! i mean those things are like 98% garateeded or something like that. or he could pull out. i cant really answer the last one cuz i have no idea, but if u havent broken ur cherry than i think its gunna be soar, but only the first time. then u can have fun lol
 
ok sooo...i don't know if my bf and i are "ready" yet...he's not pressuring me at all he only wants to do it when i'm ready but here are my concerns...and i'd appriciate it if someone could help me out here...thanks.

1) when and where we'd do it. i don't have my license yet, neither does he, so it would be kinda hard to "find a place to do it"..so to speak, lol.

2) the risk of getting pregnant...i know its a tiny chance but theres STILL A CHANCE and i'd be screwed if i got pregnant cause i AM NOT telling my parents when i have sex. thats weird and they'd think of me as a slut. (although i was doing my research and i found out that there are some abortion clinic things not too far from where i live that don't require parental consent..thank god)

and 3...
would it hurt bad? :'( i have a low pain tolerance so you can see why i never want children, lol.

thx for any answers. but don't be rude, this is a serious question. -_-
 
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