If you have sex while you are ovulating.. how long does it take the sperm to meet the egg? Yesterday I went to the bar with a close guy friend and we ended up having sex and the condom broke and he came in me.. supposedly he didn't know it broke.. and I ovulate on day 21 of my cycle and yesterday was day 21 and I was having mild cramping which means I was most likely ovulating.. so my question is.. if your ovulating and have sex that day how long does it take for sperm to meet the egg? And also are my chances high of becoming pregnant?