Question about man in the army?

Briana

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I started to a guy on myspace. He's friends with everyone i know, and i know his sister, but we're not super close. He's 26, and in the process of getting a divorce. His divorce will be final in about 2 weeks when he comes home. His wife cheated on him while he was deployed, and he asked for the divorce. He has 2 little kids who he does take of, although they are with mom since he's in the army.

He seems really nice, and we get along great. At first we had agreed to meet, and he mentioned getting me drunk and going to the bars. I told him that wasn't the best idea. He also asked me if under the right circumstances would i have sex with him. I told him probably not, because i don't have sex when i'm not in a realtionship. Well i have pretty bad luck with men lately, but he's stuck around, so i'm thining he might actually be interested in more than just sex....

Now we have plans to hang out the whole time he's home. He has his kids the whole time he's home, and has included his kids in everything we have planned, which is just fine with me. So the bars are out of the question, and so is getting drunk. He has said that he's really interested in me, and he thinks it's awesome that i've only had sex with one guy, and that i don't drink, etc. He says it's really hard to find girls like that.

Does he sound like a sincere guy? I know i'll have to judge for myself later, but do you think he's giving me lines of bullshi*? Like i said i have bad luck with men. I'm not expecting too much, i just don't want to get played i guess.
 
Honey, I saw a red flag before continued to read past the first paragraph.

Since you obviously don't know this, he's LYING by telling you that his divorce will be final once he gets home. You CANNOT divorce someone that is deployed, you can't serve them, you can't do any of that until they are back home. I'm telling you, he's WELL aware of this. He's blatantly lying to you so that he'll have a f*&% buddy when he gets home.

Do yourself a favor and stop all contact.
 
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