Question about how to break the news to my mom?

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i am pregnant but i got pregnant on the first date with my boyfriend cause i never had sex before and wanted to know how it felt... im on birth control but i guess this was meant to be since i got pregnant and i know God wouldnt give me more than i cant handle but my mom said not to have sex on the first date and what do i do i make the mistake of having sex on the first date should i lye to her and tell her something thats not true or should i be like i was stupid and i wanted to know how it felt to have sex...

imma gonna keep the baby cause i do not believe in abortion or handing my kid to another family to raise just dont think its right ...
but im also only 17 right now will be 18 when the baby is born im scared shittless right now i really need some pointers on how to tell my mom and what its like to be a mom
sorry i mean do i lye about how i got pregnant or do i just tell her i was stupid
she put me on birth control so this wouldnt happen
 
Tell her you're sorry you didn't listen to her advice and then say what happened. Then tell her you need her advice AND help now more than ever!
She might call you stupid, or be mad, but she'll get over it, and (hopefully) want to help you and be in her grandchild's life.
 
well really you don't have to tell her all the details! you can just be like mom I am pregnant.. you don't have to be like mom i had sex on a First date and now i am knocked up!
Either way and good luck

oh and let this be a lesson learned..... birth Control is NOT 100% effective!
 
Although I will say you WERE NOT acting smart by having sex with this guy, it seems like you are really thinking things through and you should be proud of yourself for that. I don't know exactly what your mom will say, but for a heads up she CANNOT make you have an abortion, so don't let her go there. Don't lie to her though, you need to tell her the truth now so you can start working things out. If you don't have one now, you need to get a job. After all you were the one to have sex, and although you are going to need some help raising the baby you have to put forth some effort as well. Being a mom is hard work, but WELL worth it. Children are amazing and although the timing is not ideal your baby is a blessing, and don't let anyone tell you other wise. I will say that you need to not have sex again. You obviously believe in God, so you know that sex out side of marriage is wrong. I hope things work out well for you. You are welcome to email me. I was married at 16 and got pregnant 5 months later, so I know what it's like to be a young mom.
 
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