qu about sex toys.....?

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i am a sex-toy virgin, and id like to try them out.. trouble is, my husband feels uncomfortable with the idea of me even having one, so i dont really know what to do. my sex life is great without them, so i obviously dont need them, im just curious, you know?
so, is it considered cheating if i got one in secret..? i kinda feel like i would be, but wat do u think??
guys, when i say cheaing, lol, i dont mean like sleeping with another man, i mean, cheating as in im lying to him, so it feels just as bad..
 
i'll help you train with them and no, it's not cheating with an inanimate object.
 
CHEATING HA HA. it would be cheating if another man was using one on you. Be serious.
 
It's not cheating but it probably would be hurtful to your husband if you sneak around behind his back. Some guys are really insecure about sex toys so my recommendation would be go with a small toy like the pocket rocket and have him take part in using it. So many of the sex toys out there nowadays are molded from male porn stars so your average guy could easily be intimidated if you brought one of those home. The only other advice I would give is don't make the sex toy a requirement in every sexual encounter you and your husband have. This could also make him feel like he alone can't satisfy you anymore.
 
Cheating? Seriously? You think playing with a sex toy is cheating?

Dude, just get it. You will thank yourself later
 
Do it! I seriously think it can be incorporated into your sex life with him and he will learn to love it. I don't know why some men are so intimidated by toys but some are. My bf loves playing with it while we are together. I recommend getting a glass one, they are more expensive but totally clean/hygienic and well, you'll love it.
 
No, this is DEFINITELY not cheating.

You're not enlisting the help of another person, you're getting a 'thing' - a non living object to get you off.

It's not cheating.

I'm married and I have sex toys in my house. Sometimes I just want to use them, and I don't feel guilty at all!
 
I don't think it would be cheating, necessarily, but dishonest. Maybe talk to him about why he feels this way- tell him it's not to replace your sex life, it's to supplement it. Maybe start with a vibrator and tell him that you'll use it with him only at first- until he feels better about it.
 
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