I hope that I can get much needed advice/answers ...
On August 27th of 2008, I was taken to court by my EX Husband, for a divorce, and because he was seeking Full Custody of our 5 year old son. Our Temporary Orders were filed on September of 2008.
Okay, our Final Court Hearing was just this May 27th, of 2009. And during that day, it was said that my Ex Husband would get my son, For THE SUMMER, the usual 1st, 3rd, & 5th weekends of the month, however instead of the usual Friday-Sundays, it was going to be Thursday-Mondays, it was decided like this because well my son is too young and attached to me, and being away from me for 30 days, is too long.
Anyways, in court, we were ordered to pay a lady that did our Social Study, a fee for coming to court to testify, for whatever reasons, as Soon as possible.
Okay and the Judge also stated that she would not sign any papers ... or whatever, Untill the fee's were paid to the Social Study Lady ...
So of course I paid right away, like I was supposed to right, and well his father was picking him up the regular fridays-sundays, so I figured oh maybe he's too busy to get him on thursdays, so I left it as that.
So just 2 days ago, he comes to pick him up, the usual Friday, I think nothing of it untill he says "So how are we going to do this? Are you going to come and visit him?" Immediately I asked what he was talking about?
Well he is going by our TEMPORARY ORDERS, which say he can take him July 1st through the 31st!
So I asked him if he heard what was said in court? And he said YES he did, and that he had not paid the Social Study Lady, and that those rules did not apply untill he paid, and that he has not paid, PURPOSELY!!!
So he is doing this so he can go by the OLD COURT ORDERS, and not the new ones, which I may add, I have not received at all!
According to the Old Orders, we were both primary conservetors of my son, but when we went to court, it was said that only I was the Primary, and not my Ex-Husband!
What can I do? He is going by the OLD TEMPORARY ORDERS ... because we have not received the new ones, because again, like I said, he is not paying the Fee's PURPOSELY, to postpone the NEW ORDERS!
I cannot be away from my child that long. He is only 5 years old, and has only known me for most of his life!
And to top it off, his father moved(same town just another house, from what I've heard), and will not give me his current address ...
On August 27th of 2008, I was taken to court by my EX Husband, for a divorce, and because he was seeking Full Custody of our 5 year old son. Our Temporary Orders were filed on September of 2008.
Okay, our Final Court Hearing was just this May 27th, of 2009. And during that day, it was said that my Ex Husband would get my son, For THE SUMMER, the usual 1st, 3rd, & 5th weekends of the month, however instead of the usual Friday-Sundays, it was going to be Thursday-Mondays, it was decided like this because well my son is too young and attached to me, and being away from me for 30 days, is too long.
Anyways, in court, we were ordered to pay a lady that did our Social Study, a fee for coming to court to testify, for whatever reasons, as Soon as possible.
Okay and the Judge also stated that she would not sign any papers ... or whatever, Untill the fee's were paid to the Social Study Lady ...
So of course I paid right away, like I was supposed to right, and well his father was picking him up the regular fridays-sundays, so I figured oh maybe he's too busy to get him on thursdays, so I left it as that.
So just 2 days ago, he comes to pick him up, the usual Friday, I think nothing of it untill he says "So how are we going to do this? Are you going to come and visit him?" Immediately I asked what he was talking about?
Well he is going by our TEMPORARY ORDERS, which say he can take him July 1st through the 31st!
So I asked him if he heard what was said in court? And he said YES he did, and that he had not paid the Social Study Lady, and that those rules did not apply untill he paid, and that he has not paid, PURPOSELY!!!
So he is doing this so he can go by the OLD COURT ORDERS, and not the new ones, which I may add, I have not received at all!
According to the Old Orders, we were both primary conservetors of my son, but when we went to court, it was said that only I was the Primary, and not my Ex-Husband!
What can I do? He is going by the OLD TEMPORARY ORDERS ... because we have not received the new ones, because again, like I said, he is not paying the Fee's PURPOSELY, to postpone the NEW ORDERS!
I cannot be away from my child that long. He is only 5 years old, and has only known me for most of his life!
And to top it off, his father moved(same town just another house, from what I've heard), and will not give me his current address ...