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LinkinParko
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I've been with my girlfriend for a little over a year, and we started having sex maybe 6-7 months in. At first it was great, I was able to get hard almost whenever I wanted, but now I'm having some major problems.
Basically, I can get hard, but I lose it way to easily anymore. I'm now extremely self conscience in the way that if I start to worry during sex, I die shortly after. When we do it, I want to please her as much as I can, so if I get the mentallity that I'm not doing a good job, then it won't go away and I lose it. If I'm about to do her and I try and go in, but miss several times, I get embarasse and die quickly. When she tries to give me head, I can't keep it up.
This is embarassing for me, and it hurts more when I die quickly and my girlfriend accuses me of cheating on her. I would never do that to her. Now, I'm still attracted to my GF. She may be a plus size, but I still love her and how she looks. But because this keeps happening, I'm losing my drive, making situations worse. Any suggestions? I don't think I can go to a doctor as my parents might not like that idea. Any tips on how to calm my mind during sex? Any help would be appreciated.
Basically, I can get hard, but I lose it way to easily anymore. I'm now extremely self conscience in the way that if I start to worry during sex, I die shortly after. When we do it, I want to please her as much as I can, so if I get the mentallity that I'm not doing a good job, then it won't go away and I lose it. If I'm about to do her and I try and go in, but miss several times, I get embarasse and die quickly. When she tries to give me head, I can't keep it up.
This is embarassing for me, and it hurts more when I die quickly and my girlfriend accuses me of cheating on her. I would never do that to her. Now, I'm still attracted to my GF. She may be a plus size, but I still love her and how she looks. But because this keeps happening, I'm losing my drive, making situations worse. Any suggestions? I don't think I can go to a doctor as my parents might not like that idea. Any tips on how to calm my mind during sex? Any help would be appreciated.