Pregnant or just stressed out?? Could I be 3 months pregnant after 2 negative tests

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taken this last week? My boyfriend and I had sex with a condom and he didn't even ejaculate while inside me because i'm not on birth control and didn't want to take any chances. This was at the end of april (12 weeks ago approx). He left for Iraq a week later and I have been really stressed out, worried, and upset all summer. I've had some personal (family and friend) problems too. I haven't been sleeping right and have been exhausted. I'm always forgetful and can never concentrate at all lately. I have gotten dizzy/lightheaded a few times, but maybe because I don't drink enough fluids. My stomach has been giving me issues, but I normally get constipated a lot anyways. I've lost a few lbs in the last month. Ive had 3 periods the since he that were all normal except for the last one was a kinda lighter than normal. I do not think I am pregnant because during the last 2-3 months I have not had morning sickness, excessive nausea or vomiting, or breast swelling/tenderness, and my appetite has not increased.

After getting the lighter period last week, I got paranoid and took a couple home pregnancy tests a couple days apart, just to make sure i wasn't pregnant. Both were negative. After this lighter period I started to notice lately I've had a gurgling stomach with bloating fullness and gas, usually when I first wake up, and have had to pee more than normal. Even if I eat a small meal its almost like my stomach swells up. Things like walking fast or pressing on my stomach will cause pressure and discomfort/slight pain, and make me feel like i have to pee.

I guess my question is, if I was pregnant 12 weeks in, I would probably know by now after taking the 2 tests within the last week (3 months after sex)? My HCG levels would be high enough that they would show up? Or I probably would at least have some sure sign, like my boobs would be starting to get bigger or hurt, or I would have gained a few pounds instead of lost by now??

Do you think I have anything to worry about?? I know frequent urination, dizziness, and bloating/constipation can all be symptoms of pregnancy but do you think they are just stress related? (i've had stress throw off my periods and cause stomach aches before) Or maybe a UTI?
 
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