pregnant and my husband is arguing with me about everything, what can i do?

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mOmMy 2Be

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my husband is getting on my last nerve. im pregnant and i dont feel like arguing over every little thing, my energy level is so low. he is not being sensitive at all about me being pregnant and my hormones being crazy. he was arguing with me earlier about carseat covers. hes on my back about everything, everytime i mention something he feels like he has to make a point or defend himself by arguing. hes making me not even want to be around him and its hard to ignore him because he wont leave me alone. and he makes me argue with him, he will say stuff until i finally get mad. he makes me mad every night before bed and then im so mad i cant sleep. how can i get him to stop and just leave me alone???
 
It sounds like he has come to grips with the baby thing give him time. In the mean time go stay with your parents for a couple of weeks. Put your foot down he needs to talk out whatever is going on for him, he can not be doing this to u he could cause u to miscarriage.
 
I know this isn't going to make you happy to hear, but, is there any way its just you? With both of my babies I remember the first trimester as being the hardest part of my marriage. Everything my husband did pissed me off. I was convinced he was trying to divorce me and that he was deliberately making my life miserable. Then like clockwork at week 16 it all stopped. Looking back on it i think my husband must be a saint to have stuck by me through everything i put him through emotionally. All im saying is give it some time. Your hormones are going crazy and everything looks bad right now. If you still feel like this after the baby then somethings wrong.
 
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