pregnant and i feel like i don't like sex?

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i am 2 months prego, last night i was intimate with my husband and i didn't love it like i usually do. WTF?? it kinda hurt and i just couldn't wait for him to get off of me. i feel so terrible for saying that. it was so uncomfortable. but i know i have to give it up so his needs are met. what can i do?
 
the baby's needs exceed his. take care of u and your baby. NOT HIS.
what country are u living in?
 
well my bf has been very understanding, i didnt really want sex in the beging eather with the puking and exaustion, but now as im in my 2nd tri it has gotten better. however the positions are harder to get done. my belly is getting big and hard and it makes both of us uncomfterbal.. maybe you should talk with him and tell him he has to be gental for a little while.
 
lol..hun..in another month or so you won't be able to stay off of him! Thats the messed up hormones for you. I remember when I was pregnant with my son I didn't want anything to do with my husband for the first few months, and then for the rest of the pregnancy I couldn't stay off of him...but that got him ready for the 6 weeks of no sex after baby was born. He was worn out:).
 
wait for your 2nd trimester, your husband will be pushinf you off him lol.
Im in my 3rd and i crave sex like crazy, my husbands the one thats always to tired to keep up with me lol :)
 
And what about your needs??

This is normal. Some women lose their sex drive. I did, not so much with my first pregnancy, but with my second pregnancy, just the thought of it grossed me out. And i didn't always do it when he wanted too.

Don't always think you have to do it everytime he wants too. Have sex as often as you want.
 
You dont have to do anything,He should be patient.


And its normal for not liking sex i mean your body is preparing to push out a baby.And sex is what got you there.

I enjoyed sex while i was pregnant but after i had the baby no i didnt want him to touch me lol cause i didnt want to go threw that again.

Then i did end up liking sex again and got pregnant again.So i didnt let him touch me until i got my IUD, so now sex is enjoyable..
 
You may be dry, and a lube may help a little. There are also other things you can do to "meet his needs" ! And yes, you may feel more interested in a few more weeks. If not though, try other things.
 
I am exactly the same, im 39 weeks and havn't wanted it since i was 2 weeks, its strange because my labido was through the roof before i got pregnant. And now, i just dont feel like it at all.

When i do do it, it HURTS so much, down there. like im tearing sometimes and its SO uncomfortable.
I wouldnt worry, it's normal. Your labido could come back soon, or it might not come back at all till the end of your pregnancy, everyones different. I'm in the end of my pregnancy now and im hopin my labido does come back lol!

You don't need to give anything up, you need to do what makes YOU happy in this pregnancy, not cater to any one but your self.
My boyfriend has been so frustrated, and even argued with me, he doesnt understand, But here are other ways you can pleasure him if its what you WANT to do. If not dont do it. I bought my boyfriend a few porn movies and left him to it lol. And some times if i felt up to it, i wouldnt have sex with him but id find other ways to pleasure him.

But remember. Your pregnant and you need to do what makes YOU happy :)
 
There are times when u may feel like that.. ur pregnant. There are going to be times where ur going to really horny and ur going wanna do it. . then there is going to times when ur not in the mood.. I have been in the mood for the longest now... The last time I had sex I was 5 months pregnant. Now I am 8 months and STILL NOTHING... lol.. its normal there is nothing to worry about.

When i did it at 5 months I didn't wanna do it at 1st cause I was scared I was going to hurt the baby. He was kicking the whole time It was hard to get confortable hard to get in the mood.. But once we got going I started enjoying it and I dIdn't wanna stop.. But it did get kind of painful after the 5th time we did it. So I stopped it.. lol..No i want it everytime I talk to his daddy (he lives in a different state)
 
when u figure out an answer please let me know my boyfriend wants to do it and I just kinda push away he hasnt said nothing yet but I know he will and when we do do it Im feel the same way I wish he would hurry up and get it over wit.
 
im 28 weeks and some days i want sex but others i dont want my husband to even touch me or try to have sex with me. it does get uncomfortable not only for me but for him. one thing that doesnt hurt is letting him enter from behind. maybe try that?? just a thought for you.
 
just wait for your 2nd trimester...lol....itll b different! u can always give him oral if u dont want sex (suggestion)
 
if it starts hurting next time then just tell him to get off of u. he needs to understand. and u dont have to do something u dont want
 
its normal right now i guess. I have heard your urge for it increases from the end of your third month. tell this fact to your hudband as well. he will understand i guess. moreover he will be anxious to see that urge in your second trimester.
 
that's a common enough complaint -sometimes the hormones can affect your sex drive
also as you get bigger the missionary position will be more uncomfortable - try you on top or the spooning position - also lots of foreplay might ease the process..
good luck!
 
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