Alright, so I'm 28 weeks pregnant with the normal mood swings. My BF and I have been together about 3 years and prior to conceiving, we had some little infidelity problems that seem to be dragging into every argument. To put it short, I came across photos of women sending him nude photos via text.. and also facebook issues. Go figure. Problems that never get resolved.. (He will never discuss them)
Anyways, we fight constantly.. about absolutely nothing, the stupidest things, and previous problems. I have tried to explain that my hormones aren't "all there" without putting it all on pregnancy. I do take a little bit of blame for some arguments. He sees it as an "excuse" to fight, and doesn't understand that I am having trouble controlling my mood swings. All he does is point the finger back at me and take no responsibility for any of his actions.
Everytime we have an argument, he walks away and brushes it off.. and he constantly walks out leaving no progress of any of these arguments that need to be resolved. Then, he'll come home drunk and just put me down, and my family. He says I have nothing to offer him or a child, and that I am worthless and will fail at everything I attempt, including motherhood. Along with numerous names. Grant it, I do not work. I am a full time college student and do everything around the house.. cook, clean, laundry, etc. I am doing the best I can to help given the situation. I guess I just don't know what to do anymore.. He doesn't remember saying any of these things, and says he doesnt mean them, but that doesnt mean that it doesnt make me upset..
Suggestions, please?
Anyways, we fight constantly.. about absolutely nothing, the stupidest things, and previous problems. I have tried to explain that my hormones aren't "all there" without putting it all on pregnancy. I do take a little bit of blame for some arguments. He sees it as an "excuse" to fight, and doesn't understand that I am having trouble controlling my mood swings. All he does is point the finger back at me and take no responsibility for any of his actions.
Everytime we have an argument, he walks away and brushes it off.. and he constantly walks out leaving no progress of any of these arguments that need to be resolved. Then, he'll come home drunk and just put me down, and my family. He says I have nothing to offer him or a child, and that I am worthless and will fail at everything I attempt, including motherhood. Along with numerous names. Grant it, I do not work. I am a full time college student and do everything around the house.. cook, clean, laundry, etc. I am doing the best I can to help given the situation. I guess I just don't know what to do anymore.. He doesn't remember saying any of these things, and says he doesnt mean them, but that doesnt mean that it doesnt make me upset..
Suggestions, please?