Possibility boyfriend having sex secretly?

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Hi, I am already in relationship for a year.. in my point of view, everything is goings right so far..

However in terms of sexuality in relationship, I want to maintain virgin and only had our intercourse until next 2-3 years upon our first day of marriage.

Recall the background, My boyfriend 32 years, which is 10 years older than me, has already had sex since with his 5-years-ex-girlfriend (2 years living in the same town, 3 years long distance in which makes their relationship really2 bad & the end),
and numbers of random unknown girls (I'm not sure how many), which he claim he did it between that 3-years long distance while he was so broken-hearted because of his ex girl friend cheated on him since few months after he leave the town (to make money for their marriage) and had sex with other guys.

I first met him in the hospital, while he was in a very2 bad shape, he got liver virus after his continuos drinking during the 3 years heart pain every night. 1 1/2 years after that, we start our relationship, and it has been up to now.

Since then, In terms of sexuality in our relationship, I frequently give oral & hand job to him.. at least twice a week (from my demand), and anytime that he need to release his urge, and vice versa to me.

By recalling his background as someone who has ever had sexual intercourse before, do you think there is any possibilities he still had sex with others outside secretly since I can't give him an intercourse service?

To add about his character, he is a quiet type (do talk only to me or few people he really close to), after work 2 weekdays spend with meeting me, 2 weekdays go home have time with his family, 1 weekday have badminton or bowling with his friends. for weekend is fully follow me wherever i go.

Please let me know your thoughts.. or any suggestion is you have.. Thank you so much indeed...
 
it's tough to suspect someone of having sex elsewhere. you shouldn't assume he is if you have no evidence. his past is his past. he's with you, end of story.
 
to get more answers to this, try editing a question before posting it. right away to your hearts content and then from that, take out a quarter to half of the info. it rly does help get answers.

my opinion though...theres not much about him now that makes him stand out as a cheater and i dont realy understand why you are even thinking hes having secret sex

best of luck
 
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