Poll : Should I text back? PLEASE HELP ME?

Jay Spearing

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okay so i have known this girl for 8 weeks......we hang out quite often, text each other, we are pretty much interested in one another..that is for definite....i know her friends know about me and her mother as she said so......i still do not know if she likes me but she does certain things to suggest this through her playfully touching me, the way she recognised how i changed my cologne smell from the one i first had when we met and other small things like asking me about other girls on my wall etc.........BUT the problem is I overthink a lot, especially when it comes to her texting....for example last friday we hung out last, she has exams the following week so I text her wishing her well and she replies a few hours later appreacting it and writing kisses but not asking me how I am........a few days later i send her a very brief message asking how her exams and presentations went and she replies the next day saying "hey...everything went ok, thanks for asking.But my mom came yesterday, so I wll have to cancel the meeting with you tomorrow evening, sorry about that....Take care!"........it seemed like she was trying to avoid me for good....she didnt even ask how I was in the last few days.(which was quite uncharactersitc of her).....I know she is extremely busy when her mom is here, that has happened before.....it was planned that we would meet tomorrow since last week but she cancelled it for tomorrow and I accept the reasons but do you think she is beginning to want to drift away from me before we even started dating properly????

how can I make her sweat for me? and make her fight more for me because honestly I know the interest is there but maybe i like her more deep insde than she does..yet! i chose not to reply to her message or acknowledge the fact that she cancelled the meeting.....to make her seem like I aint desperate for her.!!!

the last time we hung out together was friday last week and everything seemed really well...but why the sudden change in attitude..?

is it over??
 
It is your perception that she has changer her attitude. Actually everything is same, but right now she is busy with exams and her mom. Previously you both were having time to meet and text each other. If she is not asking how you are doing it doesn't mean she doesn't cares you, after all she is replying you.
 
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