I am a woman and I don't find it weird at all...actually I find it somewhat nice as alot of men don't trust cats, you can't take a cat in the truck with a big spike collar, or have him get your slippers but I think it is fine, many men like to sew, cook, be house moms, grocery shop etc. I think your cat probably is contented to just lay on your lap and sleep, you don't have to walk him or keep him from barking and obviously that is working for you.