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1 Month before my wedding I got involved with my boss who is married with 2 kids. I went through with the wedding but realized pretty much on the honeymoon that it was a mistake. I was with my husband for 9 years before the wedding-4 of which were long distance. A month later I was pretty much caught red handed cheating. I love the other guy and he (i believe) loves me. I have since separated from my husband. The other guy was separated from his wife from day one, however when my husband told the other guys wife about the affair...he moved back in with her because of concern for how she was handling things and the safety of his kids. Its been 2 months and he is still living with her and no papers have been filed for divorce. He says that its going to be a while because of financial reasons and the kids.
So my question is : Will he ever leave his wife for me? I dont want to be that cliche other woman who waits for years. The ironic part is that my husband wants to try to work things out. I dont think I love him anymore, but my life would be easier if I stayed in my marriage and tried to "fake it till we make it" But i know I have stronger feelings for the other guy.....Im at such a loss and feel like a different person. I never thought I was the "cheating break up a (not so) happy family" type. I just want to be happy and love the one im with...is that naive of me? what should I do?
By concerned for how she is handleing it and the kids welfare...I mean she has a drug problem and will get loaded leaving the kids to fend for themselves. And by financial issues I mean he will go bankrupt over the divorce.
So my question is : Will he ever leave his wife for me? I dont want to be that cliche other woman who waits for years. The ironic part is that my husband wants to try to work things out. I dont think I love him anymore, but my life would be easier if I stayed in my marriage and tried to "fake it till we make it" But i know I have stronger feelings for the other guy.....Im at such a loss and feel like a different person. I never thought I was the "cheating break up a (not so) happy family" type. I just want to be happy and love the one im with...is that naive of me? what should I do?
By concerned for how she is handleing it and the kids welfare...I mean she has a drug problem and will get loaded leaving the kids to fend for themselves. And by financial issues I mean he will go bankrupt over the divorce.