can anyone of you give me some advice each item i will ask, sorry if its too long enough =(
1-Don't set expectations. Become like a romantic Buddha. Become desireless. Practice non-attachment. Expect nothing from the girl. This is not to say don't want the girl; it is just don't expect the girl to want you in return (which means you cannot be disappointed, only pleasantly surprised).
-well here, what should i do related in the first example. well when im into girl and talking to her my mind always keep thinking about her and expecting something in return which means im opposite in the example no. 1, do I need to think that “this girl don’t love me” is that what supposed in my mind when were talking each other ? damn, =( i always expecting that she loves me.. =(
"any advice in these part pls.."?
2 Show her how lovable you are. People don't seem to systematically decide who they fall in love with. It often comes with time, and in that time you need to show the girl that you are worth being around. This is the fun part! The only way this will work, though, is if you believe, on at least some level, that you are lovable and worth being around. It's very difficult to fall in love with someone who thinks badly of themselves.
-How do i show how lovable i am in to my girl, and the fact is im age 18 and the whole my life these is the first time that i had a girlfriend. and at the very first place we just become in-relationship thru on texting and we never meet . but we texting each other for almost 8 months from now and only last week we meet "October 28, 2010" and thats the first time i saw her and shes really beautiful but before we meet i always telling that im ugly so she wont think high on me ( i mean handsome) and when we talk she hasty said these " you said your ugly, but your handsome". then after a few days we still keep texting each other. but now shes not replying even a single letters.
"so how can i show her that im inlove to her. do i need to tell her that i love her very much or it is too early to say it.? ANY advice pls..?
also How to Avoid Being an Obsessive boyfriend, any some links there any advice, ? pls.these urge pls answer will you?
And How to not fully inlove in the girl maybe when im too much inlove to her and suddenlt she broke me up well we don’t know maybe im committing suicide because it is my first time to inlove. so now while it is early and im not giving yet my whole heart to her what must be I practice to not too much care and too much inlove to her.?
And wait by the way now my lady didn’t texting me already and I feel pain for that maybe she don’t want me but I always thinking maybe shes busy or whatsoever. And she don’t have time for me. -do I need to text her and say “hey hi, hows you doing now” or maybe im not going to text my gf anymore just waiting that shes the one to text me up?
And when were texting do I need to flirt her in the text.?
If not then can you give example how to do the text.?
1-Don't set expectations. Become like a romantic Buddha. Become desireless. Practice non-attachment. Expect nothing from the girl. This is not to say don't want the girl; it is just don't expect the girl to want you in return (which means you cannot be disappointed, only pleasantly surprised).
-well here, what should i do related in the first example. well when im into girl and talking to her my mind always keep thinking about her and expecting something in return which means im opposite in the example no. 1, do I need to think that “this girl don’t love me” is that what supposed in my mind when were talking each other ? damn, =( i always expecting that she loves me.. =(
"any advice in these part pls.."?
2 Show her how lovable you are. People don't seem to systematically decide who they fall in love with. It often comes with time, and in that time you need to show the girl that you are worth being around. This is the fun part! The only way this will work, though, is if you believe, on at least some level, that you are lovable and worth being around. It's very difficult to fall in love with someone who thinks badly of themselves.
-How do i show how lovable i am in to my girl, and the fact is im age 18 and the whole my life these is the first time that i had a girlfriend. and at the very first place we just become in-relationship thru on texting and we never meet . but we texting each other for almost 8 months from now and only last week we meet "October 28, 2010" and thats the first time i saw her and shes really beautiful but before we meet i always telling that im ugly so she wont think high on me ( i mean handsome) and when we talk she hasty said these " you said your ugly, but your handsome". then after a few days we still keep texting each other. but now shes not replying even a single letters.
"so how can i show her that im inlove to her. do i need to tell her that i love her very much or it is too early to say it.? ANY advice pls..?
also How to Avoid Being an Obsessive boyfriend, any some links there any advice, ? pls.these urge pls answer will you?
And How to not fully inlove in the girl maybe when im too much inlove to her and suddenlt she broke me up well we don’t know maybe im committing suicide because it is my first time to inlove. so now while it is early and im not giving yet my whole heart to her what must be I practice to not too much care and too much inlove to her.?
And wait by the way now my lady didn’t texting me already and I feel pain for that maybe she don’t want me but I always thinking maybe shes busy or whatsoever. And she don’t have time for me. -do I need to text her and say “hey hi, hows you doing now” or maybe im not going to text my gf anymore just waiting that shes the one to text me up?
And when were texting do I need to flirt her in the text.?
If not then can you give example how to do the text.?