starts slow... gets horrible... and then worse.
he was literally every girls dream. schools had combined... so new girls came and easily fell for him, including me. i made a new best friend and learned she was dating him but i was already seriously crushing on him.he flirted with me nonstop and always sat next to me in classes. she learned that i liked him, that i was possibly in love with him, and she was told by numerous people that he flirted with me and rumors of us circulated.eventually me and my bestfriend got into a big fight. we lost eachother as friends and i broke myself off from the "clique" to get over him... didnt work
next year he broke up with her. month later... i told him i liked him. he complimented me and said he "thinks he could" like me. i was so head over heels for him it was good enough for me. he then asked for pictures of me and i, after being begged, complied. regretfully of course. i regret it everyday of my life.
then he told everyone he hates me to cover up his tracks. and after a month of me not knowing who to believe, he said he didnt like me. summer came and i was over him. another month later, he came back to me saying when he left he realized that i was the one he loves. this was such a big jump from before! i was ecstatic. two days later... he asked for pictures again. i held him off saying no and didnt do it. four days later... he asked yet again. but a couple hours previously, he told me two of his best friends were at his house. after promising me they were asleep i did it again. i was mad at him for asking me again, so the next day after yelling at him, he officiailly asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes. then a week later i found everyone knew about it and didnt know how or why. i asked him if he told anyone and he straightup lied to me. he told me it was his friend who was texting me and it was never him. after being mad at him for weeks i forgave him for whatever he did wrong (i didnt know). we went on dates alone to get away from people and their judgments of us. moments were amazing that ill never forget. a month later his friends told me they saw it and he showed them to prove i was "worth" him. they told me that he got out of hand and should forgive him. i did... but turns out the friends were alwasy against us from the start. then we started going out in public and people talked but we ignored. all was 100% perfect. then we got busted... someone had told on us. he was forbidden to ever see me again, talk to me, etc. yet he told me "if things are different... we can go out someday" i didnt want to wait though and i told him that. eventually i gave him an ultimatum now or never. he chose never... and i had to accept that. it took so many tears, prayers, comforting friends, to help me through it all. but now i realize what a waste it had been. i found out the truth:
in the break we took in the beginning of summer when i was over him (right before he came back to me) he asked 4 other girls for pictures and they sent them. i asked him about this and he lied. all 4 girls confessed to me once we were over. 2 are my best friends.
it was both him and his friend who took advantage of me. mostly him.
hes going out with a new girl now, its been 3 months and he wants to be friends with me. he never confessed to any of his lies.. there was so many. everyone still laughs at us for what happened and at one point it got so bad a teacher told me i was allowed to leave the room. i wont let him in my life... should i? i gave him a second chance i dont think a third should happen.
how can i get him to answer my millions of questions? can i get him to answer?..if he wants to be friends.
he was literally every girls dream. schools had combined... so new girls came and easily fell for him, including me. i made a new best friend and learned she was dating him but i was already seriously crushing on him.he flirted with me nonstop and always sat next to me in classes. she learned that i liked him, that i was possibly in love with him, and she was told by numerous people that he flirted with me and rumors of us circulated.eventually me and my bestfriend got into a big fight. we lost eachother as friends and i broke myself off from the "clique" to get over him... didnt work
next year he broke up with her. month later... i told him i liked him. he complimented me and said he "thinks he could" like me. i was so head over heels for him it was good enough for me. he then asked for pictures of me and i, after being begged, complied. regretfully of course. i regret it everyday of my life.
then he told everyone he hates me to cover up his tracks. and after a month of me not knowing who to believe, he said he didnt like me. summer came and i was over him. another month later, he came back to me saying when he left he realized that i was the one he loves. this was such a big jump from before! i was ecstatic. two days later... he asked for pictures again. i held him off saying no and didnt do it. four days later... he asked yet again. but a couple hours previously, he told me two of his best friends were at his house. after promising me they were asleep i did it again. i was mad at him for asking me again, so the next day after yelling at him, he officiailly asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yes. then a week later i found everyone knew about it and didnt know how or why. i asked him if he told anyone and he straightup lied to me. he told me it was his friend who was texting me and it was never him. after being mad at him for weeks i forgave him for whatever he did wrong (i didnt know). we went on dates alone to get away from people and their judgments of us. moments were amazing that ill never forget. a month later his friends told me they saw it and he showed them to prove i was "worth" him. they told me that he got out of hand and should forgive him. i did... but turns out the friends were alwasy against us from the start. then we started going out in public and people talked but we ignored. all was 100% perfect. then we got busted... someone had told on us. he was forbidden to ever see me again, talk to me, etc. yet he told me "if things are different... we can go out someday" i didnt want to wait though and i told him that. eventually i gave him an ultimatum now or never. he chose never... and i had to accept that. it took so many tears, prayers, comforting friends, to help me through it all. but now i realize what a waste it had been. i found out the truth:
in the break we took in the beginning of summer when i was over him (right before he came back to me) he asked 4 other girls for pictures and they sent them. i asked him about this and he lied. all 4 girls confessed to me once we were over. 2 are my best friends.
it was both him and his friend who took advantage of me. mostly him.
hes going out with a new girl now, its been 3 months and he wants to be friends with me. he never confessed to any of his lies.. there was so many. everyone still laughs at us for what happened and at one point it got so bad a teacher told me i was allowed to leave the room. i wont let him in my life... should i? i gave him a second chance i dont think a third should happen.
how can i get him to answer my millions of questions? can i get him to answer?..if he wants to be friends.