please help

Za Magic

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i dont know where to stick this, and im not feeling myself rite now, my and my freind just had a conversation, and he has all these thoughts in his head, some1 plz help me, i dont know wat to say, i tried to be calm, i tried to calm him down, it just wasnt working, we had conversation over AIM, if he ever saw it, idk, he mite hate me for showing the conversation, and that is the last thing him, and i need. he kept saying how he wasnt good at life, and how he isnt worthy of it anymore, and how everything that he got attached to, is taking away, some1 plz help me, and my freind out, im digging my hands in my head here, idk, he mite serously commit suicide.
 
you really need to spend time with this friend,get him from wherever he is and have a talk,whenever someone threatens about that subject its a rule you MUST TAKE IT SERIOUSLY,tell him ANYTHING POSITIVE,if its really bad your gonna have to talk to his parents(don't give me any shit like,you can't do that)suggest counseling
 
^good advice^

But I must say that I hate counseling, it alone could almost drive me to suicide .. even though I'd never do that. Anyway, yea just talk with him. Aim is generally a last resort if you're trying to talk about something serious at least talk on the phone, or better yet, in person. Nothing helps depression (if that's what's up with him) like having a reliable friend that will help a guy out whenever. If you care enough for him, be that friend. Good luck to both of ya
 
my guess
talk to your friend take him and do any sort of activity like play soccer or something
sports usually calm down a person and make him feel happy
its not a long term solution but it gets you started
again there are those helplines or whatever give it a shot ask them for advice
 
I have friends in this same situation, mainly because they can't get girlfriends, their family sucks, their friends always lie to them, shit like that.
I was in the same situation, and I know what your friend is going through.
Heres what you do, you try to cheer him up, by doing anything possible.

If you send me a PM with what he said, I can give you great advice. :thumbsup:
 
The most effective suicide prevention techniques are peer groups. you need to get some friends together and make him feel like life is worth living. Mabye get him a girlly. that would work too. But dont play any journey music. REally journey is that bad. fo real
 
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