kzooscorpio
New member
Ok guys, here is a situation. I am dating a girl and I really like her. We are both 26. She is one of those alpha females. Here comes a problem:
She says we are just FU*K BUDDIES!
But she seriously contradicts herself because: if I tell her I'm gonna sleep with another girl, she gets upset. If I say I want to break up, she gets mad. If I don't call or text her, she starts worrying that I'm gone. So basically she acts like we are not just f. buddies.
Here is another weird thing - she kind of avoids being with me when her friends are around. She also avoids me staying until morning because her daughter will ask questions.
But it wasn't like that when we just started seeing each other 4 months ago. Her friends were around, and she wanted me to stay.
I thought she might have someone else... But no she does not. She just says that her feelings are very mixed.
I even tol her once to find another guy and be happy. She got very upset about that.
I thought she needs time. But again, looks like that's not the case. She clams she has no romantic feelings, but then what the hell she gets so upset even if I flirt with someone? She is not jealous, she is more upset.
Also she says that "only sex keeps us together". And yes, it is great between us.
Do you guys know what is going on? I seriously ran out of ideas in here. I thought to completely drop the "relationship", but I like her a lot. I don't even know what to do, because I do want a healthy relationship here.
Thanks!!!
She says we are just FU*K BUDDIES!
But she seriously contradicts herself because: if I tell her I'm gonna sleep with another girl, she gets upset. If I say I want to break up, she gets mad. If I don't call or text her, she starts worrying that I'm gone. So basically she acts like we are not just f. buddies.
Here is another weird thing - she kind of avoids being with me when her friends are around. She also avoids me staying until morning because her daughter will ask questions.
But it wasn't like that when we just started seeing each other 4 months ago. Her friends were around, and she wanted me to stay.
I thought she might have someone else... But no she does not. She just says that her feelings are very mixed.
I even tol her once to find another guy and be happy. She got very upset about that.
I thought she needs time. But again, looks like that's not the case. She clams she has no romantic feelings, but then what the hell she gets so upset even if I flirt with someone? She is not jealous, she is more upset.
Also she says that "only sex keeps us together". And yes, it is great between us.
Do you guys know what is going on? I seriously ran out of ideas in here. I thought to completely drop the "relationship", but I like her a lot. I don't even know what to do, because I do want a healthy relationship here.
Thanks!!!