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rlkizer
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...swings........or is it me? I've been with my husband for 4 years and will be married for 1 year this June. His personality has always been very high strung with anxiety. He's been taking Lexapro since I've known him. We've had normal fights, arguements but I am so confused right now. His anxiety is so bad that it is affecting me. I think I am developing anxiety being around him. I'm feeling depressed. He is getting mad at everything. He calls me very VERY nasty names when he gets mad. Threatens to divorce me. We both have children that aren't with each other. He has been saying that him and his son would have more if me and my "baggage were gone". His son doesn't live with us and we pay child support and get him every other weekend. But he turns everything into a competition with our kids. I think he's looking for things to pick fights over but I can't forget the words he always says to me. As of right now he wants a divorce. The arguement started 2 days ago over something small that I did to piss him off but now it's turned into divorce. He won't answer his phone, says it's none of my business where he is at, I'm not his wife anymore,says he doesn't love me, he is sick of me, etc...........I'm convinced he is just trying to find a way out of the marraige. I also think he might be bipolar or have a very severe anxiety disorder or something. He's done this before and a few days later he was fine. By the way his entire family is freaking crazy. Any advice would help, I think I am going crazy too. I know I'm not a saint but I don't deserve this unless I really have caused him to hate me this much
I forgot to mention that he will take the car from me since my car is in his name, calls everything HIS, I didn't work for over a year and now work part time. He can't make up his mind if he wants me to work(he makes good money) but always tells me I don't do anything for the household. Then I will look for a job, then he gets mad, then he wants me to get a job......I'm confused
I forgot to mention that he will take the car from me since my car is in his name, calls everything HIS, I didn't work for over a year and now work part time. He can't make up his mind if he wants me to work(he makes good money) but always tells me I don't do anything for the household. Then I will look for a job, then he gets mad, then he wants me to get a job......I'm confused