PLEASE HELP! My friend go severely hurt in a bike accident! im very worried!

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Jen

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will she be ok! Please Help!? Very long but plz plz plz read and answer, i need alot of help!

Me and a few friends were riding are bikes around my street, but one of my friends attempted to jump a high curb but jumped to early and her, and her bike flipped over and she hit the ground very hard while not wearing a helmet! Me and my friends ran over to her and saw her in tears, bleeding with horrible cuts, scrapes, and gashes all over her body. We also noticed that she couldnt move at all! My friend begged me not to call the ambulance because she was terrified, my parents were out of state so i couldnt go to them for help either. I then decided to call the ambulance anyway. When the paramedics arrived, my friend had lost conciousness, and was rushed to the ER, and the paramedics looked very concerned. All I know of now is that she has spinal and head injurys. Do you think she will survive, or even be the same person agian??? What do you think happend to her?!?! Me and my friends are very worried, and havent even gotten any sleep, and have just been crying about the whole thing. Somehow i also feel like this is my fault because it was my idea to go biking in the first place. Please give me some advice and help on this whole situation! I need her, shes my best friend, and the best person in my life! And i also have alot of test tommarow in school and I dont know how I will sleep and concentrate! Im a wreck i cant focus on school work!

PLEASE HELP ME!
 
calm done honey, i'm very sorry for your friend, it sounds like she suffered a concussion
it is not your fault don't blame yourself for the incident it could have happened to anybody; it was a total freak accident
But why wasn't she wearing her helmet??? it would have saved her some injuries if she had worn it...
I want you to talk to your teachers they will understand if you explain the situation calmly and with details
take five deep breaths in and out right now as you read this
good, now do it again.

and whenever you start worrying about her start breathing in and out.
in and out, in and out, in and out, and in and out

you should go to the nurse if you feel an anxiety attack coming up on you and ask to go home, if they want let you, start crying it always works for me :)
im sure she will be fine, she just needs some rest and special treatment from the doctors
and rest, the key to healing is rest and time
feel free to talk to me if you still feel scared!
 
omg im sorry she prolly has neck spine injuries it could b temporary or it could b forever but hey dont feel to guilty she brought this upon herself
 
Hang in there! It's absolutely not your fault and you definitely did the right thing by calling for an ambulance.

It is very possible to survive a spinal cord injury and/or a head injury. Not all spinal cord injuries result in paralysis... some do, but not all. A head injury can be anything from a mild concussion (headache and maybe some temporary memory loss) to coma and death.

I can't tell you how things will turn out for your friend... you could try calling the hospital she was taken to and see if they will provide any info or even let you talk to her.

If you are really upset about this, talk to your parents or a counselor at school. Talk to your teacher, tell him/her what happened, and let them know how upset you are... ask if you can have an extension on the test or do extra credit if you get a poor score.

You did a great thing by calling for an ambulance. Getting your friend emergency medical care quickly will definitely improve her chances of getting through this ok. Having friends stick by her will help too.

Sorry I can't be of more help. If you have any more info about how she is doing, what injuries she's been diagnosed with, treatment, whatever, feel free to send me an email and I will explain what I can.

Take care of yourself. Please wear a helmet!
 
ok hun take a breath its not your fault, people ride bikes 365 days a year, accidents happen, this very unfortunate but i hope and pray that she will be alright

what you sould do is a few things

1. go to the hospital and be there for your friend and her family
2. while there get information from her mom and dad or whoever grandma whatever
3. pray

thats all you can do? i will pray as well

also, you did the right thing by calling 911, you very well may have saved her life

also, ask your parents to let you skip school, I'm sure they understand

how old are you?
 
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