lifeiscruel09
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Okay, so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, and engaged for a year. We have an 11 month old son, who is adorable.
The problem is that he has an evil mother, i mean since the day i met her she hated me, all because she didn't pick me. At the start he was a real mommy's boy, but since then i've nearly got it out of him. His stupid mother has had several 'goes' at me, telling me that if we ever had kids together that they would be retards, and that she wishes he was still with his ex, then trying to blame me for wanting to kill herself, and for wanting to leave her husband. This has happened about 5 or 6 times, basically after 6 months of being together, then another 3 months after that, then after i had our son, then again after that and then just recently, like a month ago. But the last time she had ago at me, she told me that i'm never allowed at her house, or at any of her kids houses ever again. Sadly my boyfriend never stuck up for me once, and expects me to apologize to her for god knows what. So in conclusion, my boyfriends entire family is against us and hates me, my boyfriend still expects me to allow him to take our son there (Even though his stupid mother likes to feed babies beer and encourage them to smoke, and has a little jack russel who likes to bite), and i don't know what to do.
But tonight i'm finally going to decide, since he went against my wishes and took my son there. So what should i do? i love him and all but the stress his family puts on our relationship is to much and he won't do anything about it. Should i leave him or not?
The problem is that he has an evil mother, i mean since the day i met her she hated me, all because she didn't pick me. At the start he was a real mommy's boy, but since then i've nearly got it out of him. His stupid mother has had several 'goes' at me, telling me that if we ever had kids together that they would be retards, and that she wishes he was still with his ex, then trying to blame me for wanting to kill herself, and for wanting to leave her husband. This has happened about 5 or 6 times, basically after 6 months of being together, then another 3 months after that, then after i had our son, then again after that and then just recently, like a month ago. But the last time she had ago at me, she told me that i'm never allowed at her house, or at any of her kids houses ever again. Sadly my boyfriend never stuck up for me once, and expects me to apologize to her for god knows what. So in conclusion, my boyfriends entire family is against us and hates me, my boyfriend still expects me to allow him to take our son there (Even though his stupid mother likes to feed babies beer and encourage them to smoke, and has a little jack russel who likes to bite), and i don't know what to do.
But tonight i'm finally going to decide, since he went against my wishes and took my son there. So what should i do? i love him and all but the stress his family puts on our relationship is to much and he won't do anything about it. Should i leave him or not?