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justme09
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sick to my stomach about sex...Y? My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, married for 5 years. We have 3 beautiful children together. We have a GREAT relationship. We communciate well, have trust, respect each other. My husband is a WONDERFUL man. I feel very blessed to be able to share my life with him.
However, I have absolutely no sex drive what so ever. When I think about having sex with him, I get sick to my stomach. I find myself making excuses not to have sex. He is great in the bedroom and knows what he is doing, so I know it has nothing to do with that. I was sexually abused when I was younger for 3 years, I was just touched but pentration never occured! I have talked to a counselor when I was younger about it. I do not ever think about it and it is never on my mind. I am just wondering if that has anything at all to do with why I have no sex drive and why I make excuses so I dont have to have sex. I do not understand why I feel like this. I feel very bad for my husband, that I cant make him happy in the bedroom all the time, when he wants it.
He does talk about sex a lot and he does seem to turn any conversation into sex or relates it to sex some how. I have talked to him about this and he does not do it as much as he use to.
I work 2 jobs, take care of 3 children, keep up at house hold things, but so he does he. He is always in the mood. So, those are no excuses. I do have very irregular periods, I dont know if it could be something hormonal or what it could be. Please help, I dont want to not make my husband happy. But, I dont want to feel like I am doing it just to make him happy. I want to be able to actually have a sex drive and actually look forward to making love to my husband.
I also, do not like to french kiss, be touchy feel or anything like this. I use to but not for atleast 2-3 years now. What could be going on??
And no before anyone ask... I dont have anyone else that I am interested in. And yes, whenever we do have sex, I do enjoy it. Its just that I dont have the urge or really care if I ever have sex again. Please Help!
However, I have absolutely no sex drive what so ever. When I think about having sex with him, I get sick to my stomach. I find myself making excuses not to have sex. He is great in the bedroom and knows what he is doing, so I know it has nothing to do with that. I was sexually abused when I was younger for 3 years, I was just touched but pentration never occured! I have talked to a counselor when I was younger about it. I do not ever think about it and it is never on my mind. I am just wondering if that has anything at all to do with why I have no sex drive and why I make excuses so I dont have to have sex. I do not understand why I feel like this. I feel very bad for my husband, that I cant make him happy in the bedroom all the time, when he wants it.
He does talk about sex a lot and he does seem to turn any conversation into sex or relates it to sex some how. I have talked to him about this and he does not do it as much as he use to.
I work 2 jobs, take care of 3 children, keep up at house hold things, but so he does he. He is always in the mood. So, those are no excuses. I do have very irregular periods, I dont know if it could be something hormonal or what it could be. Please help, I dont want to not make my husband happy. But, I dont want to feel like I am doing it just to make him happy. I want to be able to actually have a sex drive and actually look forward to making love to my husband.
I also, do not like to french kiss, be touchy feel or anything like this. I use to but not for atleast 2-3 years now. What could be going on??
And no before anyone ask... I dont have anyone else that I am interested in. And yes, whenever we do have sex, I do enjoy it. Its just that I dont have the urge or really care if I ever have sex again. Please Help!