Please don't think less of me but I have a thing for my brother in law. Help please?

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So its just a little crush. I think its just because he looks and acts like my husband, but there's things about him that he does or says that my husband would never say or do that I find attractive. He's in the military for example, and he's kind of a bad boy. I don't know...do I have a crush on him? Or do I just...admire him? I've only been married to my husband for a little while and I never used to have a thing for his brother but when his brother and I were alone one time I found out things about the guy that I never knew, like he got a tattoo. My husband would never get a tattoo. He smokes (not that I exactly find that attractive, but again it's something my husband would never do). He does alot of daring things that my husband wouldn't do. I'm not saying my husband is a pansy or anything, but he just doesn't take as many risks as his brother does.

He and my husband look alike except that he has black hair and my husband has brown hair. That's the only difference. And that he's two years younger than my husband.

Anyway, my husband can be a bad boy too...but not as much as his brother. Like, he and his brother wouldn't be afraid to punch someone in the face if they had to, but I just don't know. There's something about his brother. I have no idea what it is.

Please don't think less of me one time I had a friend of mine ask this question on here and got back some really rude answers. Please don't think less of me I'm trying to figure out why I have a thing for him. Please help me and tell me what I should do to get over it?
 
i dont think any less of you, if you did anything with him tho i would.
If he looks just like you hubby, then it's just the physical features that remind you of your hubby and it shows that you really do love him evn tho u think you have a crush on his brother. Just spend all your time thinking about your hubby and if you want him to be a little more 'dangerous' just suggest some exciting things to do.
 
You are into the bad boy image. Let's think about the reasons you originally fell for your husband.
1) security.... there is nothing secure about a bad boy
2) dependability.....you cannot depend on a bad boy, trust me
3) availability....your husband has a lot of time on his hands since he is not running out to buy smokes & get inked up.

I would think that your infatuation with your bro-in-law is just that. Every girl likes the bad boys but you seem like a grown woman so think about the future. Do you really want to spend your 25th anniversary at the local tattoo shop?

Just for the record I am not a bible thumping crazy lady. My husband smokes & has tattoos. Yes I married my bad boy!!!
 
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