PLEASE ANSWER! He doesn't want sex nor kids!?

[Getting tipsy]

Almost every night I spent with my bf, he would just go on with the foreplay and settle with that.

It still became weird for me considering he's a young guy so I went to the doctor with him last summer and his "plumbings" clean and functional. Even at times from month to month, I dress up in lingerie and try to seduce him but he would always stick to the foreplay!

So now last week, I gave up and told him I want kids and I want to hear that he wants kids also. What he did was he stopped playing a game (he was on his xcube) and just stood up and blurted how he'll never want to have kids no matter how everyone pressures him. And he sorta drifted on a tangent and mentioned how he hated how everyone expects him to have sex and impregnate like his friends, every member of his family, and that he doesn't want to hear it now from his own girl.

Then I just blasted out the door and headed home. It hurts how he didn't run back after me and for a week till now he didn't call. I love him even though I love kids, should I just move on or what?

 

[Professor Bojangles]

Ok I'll categorize this into two different issues: no kids and the no sex.

First off, a sex life is nowhere as important as you believe, society, media, and your brain's primitive system corrupted you into thinking so. In reality, a relationship is based more on how you two love each other platonically. If it had depended on sex as many people believe, then it explains the rising divorce rates.

2ndly, the no children is a much bigger issue. Most women tend to set their life goal as solely for children, if you are one of them, then I can't stop you, you need to move on. But this guy seems to be such a great catch and you must be lucky to have a guy and to have the opportunity to spend your life with the perfect person (despite your horny perspective). But if you can't agree with him, move on.