My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, we live together and have a 7 month old baby girl together. I'm 21 and he is 23 and he loves playing Call of Duty Black Ops every... every night. Like he plays for about 1-2 hours cause most times the baby wakes up, but when there are some nights I wanna go upstairs and get busy, he doesn't want to and either says, I wanna stay up or I'm not tired or I wanna play some more rounds.
I can understand that some nights he wants to stay up and enjoy some alone time, but when there are some nights I wanna spend with him upstairs, it could be a hassle convincing him.
He says we have the rest of our lives to spend together and have many nights to spend together. The nights we do spend together, I enjoy cuddling after then falling asleep with him. The other night he wanted to change that by doing the deed then getting out of bed and play some more games. I don't like that really, having intimacy then leaving. I know he may not be able to spend as much time as he wants to play games since he works full time and we also have a young child to take care of, but when I want a night, maybe once or twice a week, is it really that big of a deal to drop the Xbox controller and pleasure your fiancee?
We do have sex once or twice a week, but sometimes I want more. am I being selfish or should he start getting busier?
He doesn't have a problem coming to bed and doing it, he has a problem with that he doesn't wanna go to sleep with me after cause half the time he isn't tired. I just feel like its awkward that we have a great time together, and after I wanna finish with some snuggles and cuddles and he wants to get up and leave.
I can understand that some nights he wants to stay up and enjoy some alone time, but when there are some nights I wanna spend with him upstairs, it could be a hassle convincing him.
He says we have the rest of our lives to spend together and have many nights to spend together. The nights we do spend together, I enjoy cuddling after then falling asleep with him. The other night he wanted to change that by doing the deed then getting out of bed and play some more games. I don't like that really, having intimacy then leaving. I know he may not be able to spend as much time as he wants to play games since he works full time and we also have a young child to take care of, but when I want a night, maybe once or twice a week, is it really that big of a deal to drop the Xbox controller and pleasure your fiancee?
We do have sex once or twice a week, but sometimes I want more. am I being selfish or should he start getting busier?
He doesn't have a problem coming to bed and doing it, he has a problem with that he doesn't wanna go to sleep with me after cause half the time he isn't tired. I just feel like its awkward that we have a great time together, and after I wanna finish with some snuggles and cuddles and he wants to get up and leave.