Hello, so recently ive begun thinking i have a pilionidal cyst. as far back as i can remember ive felt a tiny peanut sized lump on top of my tailbone, sort of like a gland, but ive never thought anything of it. this last january i went off the basic training for the army and towards the end of those 10 weeks that "gland" got swollen and inflammed,soon enough it was oozing brownish red pus that smelled HORRIBLE. Then after a few days it went away. still thought nothing of it. weeks go by, then mid may while im in AIT it happens again right before a P.T. test, my only worry at that point was that i had to pass my test but this "gland" made it extremely painful to do situps, because once again it had swollen up. so i pushed on past the pain and it again drained out and went away. now here we are in mid august, im at my duty station in kansas for the army with my wife, who up until she actually say this cyst, was convinced it was just a bad pimple. and of course 2 days ago this thing starts flaring up again. well yesterday it was the biggest its ever gotten, roughly 4-5 inches long. sort of like an egg. i was very tired (from lack of sleep) and i felt like i might of had a slight fever, so i went to bed early. when i woke up today i noticed that in the night this cyst had begun draining on its own, so i helped it along by squeezing some of the goo out, and might i say that made it feel ALOT better. afterwards my lower back began to hurt alot, im guessing that the cyst was so big that it had put pressure on my tailbone and lower spine so when it got relieved my spine had to adjust or something, causing the pain? im probably wrong but thats my guess. anyways, that was this morning and now my back feels pretty good, my bottom is still pretty sore so i rigged some pillows to allow me to sit comfortably. every 2 hours or so i take the papertowel i put over the cyst to absorb the leakage off and manually drain the beast, it seems to be effective. i still have random spells where it feels like i have a fever, but they quickly fade away,im guessing its just because im nervous about this thing. i should also mention i am 23 years old and in pretty good health, the army makes sure of that haha. i am not in anyways overweight (ive heard alot of obese people get theses cysts) i do have a fair amount of body hair, which i believe is the cause of these cysts. how should i go about getting rid of this thing? i do not want surgery and will go to any lengths to avoid it. it isnt a big problem until it flares up. but this is the worst its been, pain and size wise. is this going to be a constant trend? if i shave the area and take great care to keep it clean can this be avoided? Also, if i was to drink a few alcoholic beverages, that wouldnt greatly effect this infection would it? because ive had a long exhausting work week and would love nothing more than to kick back a few beers. anyway i hope to get some kind of response from this horribly long post, IS this a pilonidal cyst? it fits the description to a T. Thanks.:wave: