I recently got some new lens' and accessories for my Canon Rebel XS, and I am just wondering what I need to do (lens wise, or photoshop) to get my picture to show up like this.. I have loved the idea of seeing the background in the eye since the first time I saw it. Any help is amazing. Thanks 
This is what I have in mind:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mellaangel/5062524704/in/set-72157625058265157/

This is what I have in mind:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/mellaangel/5062524704/in/set-72157625058265157/