period or too much sex?

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Ok. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 days, 3 nights. It was a vacation. Every night, we make out like 2-3 times. The first and second was ok. But on the third day, it was a painful intercourse. It hurts when he put his thing at the very end. After the third day, my lower stomach starts to hurt.. Very painful especially when it's cold. I was thinking maybe because my period is gonna come.. But it was so different from the pain i used to feel for my period. For that 2 days pain, I have a very lil blood stain on my undies. I got scared cause maybe something's wrong with me. But after that 2 days, I have my period. But the first day, it was black. The blood coming out from me is black. Not literally black, but it's not red as blood. Until now I have my peroiod, but my lower stomach is still hurting. But not too much unlike the past days. Is there something wrong with me? too much sex? Or is it just really because of my period? After my period and it is still hurting, something's really wrong with me..
 
It was probably because it was a little rough. This is usually common when you have sex regularly if your not lubricated as much you tend to irritate your skin which causes it to be painful, as well as if the sex is too rough it may cause you to feel pain after wards. It's usually normal and means your fine, and if your period is dark it sometimes means that it didn't get as much oxygen or enough time to produce enough to be the blood you normally see, but I would say your fine. and maybe next time not do it so rough and see what happens.
 
its quite possible that u collapsed! this can happen 4 a number of reasons and can b dangerous as u can stay attached 2 the guy and have 2 b taken 2 hospital, but i would get it checked out by a doctor coz something aint right, better 2 get it sorted just incase! xx
 
Sounds like too much sex to me. My ob/gyn told me (my husband is large) that with enough foreplay, the vaginal walls lubricate themselves and the cervix becomes more pliable and moves up to make extra room for the penis penetration. (honestly, she told me that)

I know there is never too much sex, but sometimes I hurt even with enough foreplay. Hurts my belly. If he ripped you, the blood would be bright red and not dark. I've had dark blood on my periods with no sex, so it's common.

Take it easy for a while and let your period cease and your body heal for a day or two. You'll be fine.
 
I think you need to see a doctor - I doubt you had "too much" sex but it sounds like you do have something wrong and you should get checked out.
 
It just sounds like you guys were a little too rough and you just have some bruising. The blood could be from some tearing--maybe more lubrication will help in the future. Use a heating pad on your abdomen and some ibuprofin to help with the pain. If things don't clear up soon, call a doctor.

Your period could also be a factor in this. If the muscles are worn out and anything is bruised, it would increase the pain in your cramping.

These things are pretty common, in my experience, if you have only recently lost your virginity or if it's been awhile since the last time you had intercourse. But, it is possible to just be a little too rough down there and bang stuff up!
 
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