Perfect Fucking Week!

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Harrie

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Where to start..

..Well, my girlfriend, of a year and one month, left me about 2-3 weeks ago. She said to just give her time. I accepted it and left it at that, just went straight into being her friend.

Monday, this week, around 12:00 noon Central Time.. I started having pains in my chest, and seeing as how I had just downed 3/4 of a cheeseburger from Quick Trip I dismissed it as something not wanting to get washed down. Left it alone. 5:15PM Rolls around and I'm damn near in tears on the floor, unable to breathe. I tough it out for a few more hours and take some Tylenol at about 9:00PM.

Well that helped up until I woke up at 7:00AM today. Took some more Tylenol and off to work I went. (Just for the record, I work at a conferencing call center in Lenexa called Intercall.) Got to work at about 8:25, and went into the building to start my day. Got to my position for the day and pulled up my daily schedule. (On average I do one call a day) No call today, nothing on my schedule at all except my two scheduled breaks, lunch, and a meeting at 1:00PM.

Come to find out they are shutting down my call center come August 28th. I went on through my day as normal until 2:15 and used 3 hours of PTO to go home early. Got home, and was kind of freaking out about the whole girlfriend/exgirlfriend situation. She texts me at about 8:30 saying that she doesn't want to get back together with me. I text her back and forth asking why and all that shit. Come to find out, she doesn't want to be with me again, ever. EVER! What the fuck is that shit?

And now I have to go to sleep to wake up to chest pain (Which I think is Costochondritis because my brother and his ex have both had it, and the way he described it, it sounds the same), taking my friend to work, and going to the doctor.

What a wonderful fucking week.

One word. FML!

-Love, Jared-

Any input is welcome, but please keep it constructive to some degree.
 
I've been there. I bet the chest pain is stress. If you're worried go to the clinic.

At the moment. My eye won't stop twitching. Probably stress related too...or my psychotic other self wanting to rape my neighbors with cleavers again.


Thing is, you need to work on separating work and life. There is a time to stress, a time to work, a time to do laundry and relax.

Don't get them mixed up. Don't worry about work when you're relaxing and don't stress while at work. There's a time and a place for everything, and life tends to work it's way out over time. maybe not how you expect, but it still works.
 
Go to the doctor, start hitting the help wanted section of the classifieds, and leave a flaming bag of dog crap on your ex's doorstep then knock the door and run away. :thumbsup:
 
Fuck. Did she give any legitimate reason as to why she never wants to be with you again?

When it comes to romantic relationships, I've been pretty damn lucky so far. I can't say I regret anything I've done in that area, and I've even managed a breakup in which me and the other person are still very close. But I have had people who I thought were true friends suddenly cut off the friendship for no apparent reason, and it's infuriating.

As for the chest pain, hope that goes away, 'cause...damn.
 
Her reasoning was, "I'm tired of fighting with you, you don't want the same things I want, and I'm ready to move on."

I'm just like.. O_o WAT!?

I'm the one in the situation that is more than willing to do whatever needs to be done to make us work. I love her. I spent a year with her.

And yes, we fought, but we always made up, or so I thought.
 
See, it's that lack of elaboration that makes me want to rip off my own arm and beat someone with it. If the real reason you're ditching someone is because you're bored or don't give a shit in the first place, just say that. Don't fake some reason in an attempt to make yourself look better as a person.
 
That is some harsh new there Jared.
I hope either you two can work it back out, or seperate on a good note.
As for the chest pain, that would be from anxiety attacks. You can have those without realizing it when you are feeling very nervous. It causes the heart to work overtime and flutters a bit causing discomfort.
So I suggest to try watching some movies, and relax.
 
I would assume your girl has problems. Dont sweat it. Everything happens for a reason... just go with the flow.


As long as you're alive... there is still hope.
 
Yeah, as for the chest pains. Today is the third day solid, constant pain.

As for the girl, I am just going with the flow. So much as possible given the facts.
 
Glad to see you went to the doctor. I hope things look up but I can't say my life is any better. There are much more important things in life to look forward to than one girl, everything happens for a reason and if you were good to her, karma will make sure you get someone good to you.
 
Wow.. That's probably the first time anyone has said anything to me that actually made me think this will all be okay. Honestly.

Except my job of course. NOT MANY JOBS IN LENEXA FUCK HOLE'S AT INTERCALL!
 
Chest pains/ headache/ body ache - yeah it's stress. I get that a lot whenever I think about finding another job. That coupled with losing your partner would probably drive your stress levels ^^^^. Hang in there Jared. I hope your g/f comes around, or at least gives you a resonable explanation to why she wants to leave you. But some people are just douches; so perhaps just put it down to that.

Good luck on the job front - I know how shitty it is to look for work right now. At least you have 3 months to do it before you're completely out.
 
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