Parents who have had kids that had to go through testing?

[Sookie Loves Vampires]

how did you cope? my 2 year old just had blood work done for genetic testing to see if there is an underlying condition that is causing his seizures. He may also have to go back for a spinal tap (which gives me the shivers even thinking about).

I have recently had a ton of information thrown my way and i am coping, but i am questioning myself on how i am coping so well. Do you feel that it is just an instinct parents have or do you think not everyone copes as well as others?