Parents have been/are arguing...?

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Stephan Forde

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My parents have been arguing for a week straight, maybe longer. They are arguing right now as I type this and probably as you read this. I have no idea what they are arguing about. Today they argued from 3:00pm until 1:00am and just started up back again. My mom has threatened my dad twice about getting a divorce and saying "we're done." Doors are being slammed, shits being broken. I have been in my room listening to music the entire time, can't even eat, and feel like puking soo bad. Someone please help me, I can't take this anymore. I'm soo afraid of my mom busting in my room (my mom is the one who started it and is always in control) and says "Me and your father are getting a divorce." I don't know what to do. I want to leave the house but I know I'll just get into a load of shit. I have nowhere to go. Normally I can't fall asleep until like 3am sometimes even 5am. I don't want to have to hear them anymore. They've been locked in a room for 10hours today I can't take it anymore...
 
If your parents are anything like mine, they will eventually stop. The divorce threats are probably just expressing anger. My mom threatens my dad with that all the time. It never happens though.
 
My parents have been fighting for 50years. They usually can't sustain it for 10hours at a stretch.

Try to stay out of it. Don't let them drag you into the conflict. Tell yourself it isn't your concern.

And remember, divorce wouldn't necessarily be such a bad thing.
 
I am sorry after I read this question. I hear you loud, clear and feel your pain from far away. I want you to know one thing that both of your parents are still working the problem. None of them leave the house that is a good sign.Tomorrow you need to talk to both in the same room. Ask them about what was going on last night? Tell them how you felt and they need to know your feedback. Stop them from doing the wrong thing and you can do this. Trust me you can save them. Do not be afraid to intervene and you will not regret at all. Thank you for sharing with me and Have a good night.
 
Well..if your freaked out about it maybe you should sit them down and let them know how you feel. Sometimes when parents fight, they get so into it that they forget someone else is also getting mixed up with their arguments (their kids).....

I wouldnt get involved with their argument though....those things are between married couples....
If they get divorced, remember that its because of THEM not you......
 
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