Ok, so I'm 18 (just turned 18 a couple of days ago) and for the past 4-5 years my parents have been arguing Mother and Step-Dad. I've become so used to it now that when they fight it doesn't mean anything. It's just "another" occurrence such as eating dinner simply because it happens almost every night. They've been married for 11 years this month and now that I'm 18, I can move out. But one simple problem, I really can't because I need their helping paying for my community college (they will pay half) as long as I live in the house with them.
It's become a point that I just don't come home after work anymore, I simply go to my uncles house almost every day of the week to avoid having to listen to them fight or bicker at each other. No matter what I say to either of them, it doesn't change anything. The next night they fight/argue about something else.
When I go to my uncles house, I come home to them fighting and usually me getting "yelled" at by either one or both of them about me not coming home until about 11PM every night. But we've had a discussion about why I leave but that did not fix anything at all, everything remained the same.
So my question is:
A) Should I continue to live at home and bear with the consistent bickering for another year until I go to ASU
or
B) Go and live with my uncle (who is more than willing to take me in) but pay rent?
Quite honestly, I don't need a little 14 year old saying "Sucks to be you" or any of that, just want a simple, clean, legitimate answer.
Thanks!
It's become a point that I just don't come home after work anymore, I simply go to my uncles house almost every day of the week to avoid having to listen to them fight or bicker at each other. No matter what I say to either of them, it doesn't change anything. The next night they fight/argue about something else.
When I go to my uncles house, I come home to them fighting and usually me getting "yelled" at by either one or both of them about me not coming home until about 11PM every night. But we've had a discussion about why I leave but that did not fix anything at all, everything remained the same.
So my question is:
A) Should I continue to live at home and bear with the consistent bickering for another year until I go to ASU
or
B) Go and live with my uncle (who is more than willing to take me in) but pay rent?
Quite honestly, I don't need a little 14 year old saying "Sucks to be you" or any of that, just want a simple, clean, legitimate answer.
Thanks!