parent appropriate dancing?

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im having my sixteenth birthday party and i am sharing it with this other girl. It is an eighties dance type thing and both of my parents will be there (ugh). I've been to two school dances before so I know how to dance and stuff, but I've only danced with a guy once and I didn't even know him. It was a slowish song so he just held me by the hips and we kinda swung our hips to the beat and i held onto his shoulders. So the point is, is that ok dancing for when parents are present? or is it only like ok if there is like a foot between you and the guy? IDK!! please help! I don't want to upset my parents but i want to have fun too!
 
We use to do all kinds of naughty dances at the skating rink when we were teenagers *_*.
Maybe you should do normal dances around your parents....I think I would have felt embarrassed in front of parents wouldn't you?
 
We use to do all kinds of naughty dances at the skating rink when we were teenagers *_*.
Maybe you should do normal dances around your parents....I think I would have felt embarrassed in front of parents wouldn't you?
 
well, it really depends on your parents.
some parents are more reasonable for sixteenth birthday parties, i mean if its a big party.. they may not even notice you!

i never had a big sixteenth bday party, but when i go to family weddings, me and my sister have some drinks and we just dance with girls (who knows what i would dance like with guys if i were tipsy).. but i go into auto pilot when my parents are there, like i just know what to do and what not to. you'll figure out the same for yourself when you have your party.
my suggestion would be not to dance with guys in FRONT of your parents. maybe go further away and take it easy.. nothing too slutty!
also, i never feel embarassed dancing in front of my parents, because if it was my birthday they'd be happy too and would be busy dancing themselves hahaha

and as for slow dancing, i don't think your parents will mind unless you know they are very strict. you know your parents better than anyone.
 
Leave some room between you and the boy and dance the way you think your folks would approve.
 
As long as you feel you're respecting yourself and the boy you're dancing with, that means you're also respecting your parents, whether they're present or not.
 
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