So i have a father who's overly agressive.
i live with him (age 53) and my nan( his mum age 83) I'm 18 and female
he's continually yelling at his mum ( my nan), screaming sometimes even hitting her ( never anything to push her down or hardly even bruise her ), but usually it's when i'm out and i get back it's too late, i'm continually telling him to stop and threatening to take action but he's had a stroke and is basically back to normal and he always makes excuses saying, i told her not to touch this or to move there she was slow, didn't do what i said etc,
he yells at me but i just yell back and walk away and ignore him, i can stand up for myself and not let hm push me down but i'm worried for my nan
and i don't want him locked up forever but HE NEEDS help , i don't know who to tell or what to do, it's my nans house but if we kicked him out he has no money and can't work due to the stokre thing - but he does have no side effects of the stroke now, besides being tired sometimes, he talks walks and acts normal, how do i get helpfor him to send him to rehab or somewhere or just away to get help for a few months.. i'm so stuck.
P.s i did refer him to anger management class rehab type thing but they didn't do much, he didnt' want to do it, went once and they couldnt make him go back or even tried to when i rang them up asking them to please make him go
i live with him (age 53) and my nan( his mum age 83) I'm 18 and female
he's continually yelling at his mum ( my nan), screaming sometimes even hitting her ( never anything to push her down or hardly even bruise her ), but usually it's when i'm out and i get back it's too late, i'm continually telling him to stop and threatening to take action but he's had a stroke and is basically back to normal and he always makes excuses saying, i told her not to touch this or to move there she was slow, didn't do what i said etc,
he yells at me but i just yell back and walk away and ignore him, i can stand up for myself and not let hm push me down but i'm worried for my nan
and i don't want him locked up forever but HE NEEDS help , i don't know who to tell or what to do, it's my nans house but if we kicked him out he has no money and can't work due to the stokre thing - but he does have no side effects of the stroke now, besides being tired sometimes, he talks walks and acts normal, how do i get helpfor him to send him to rehab or somewhere or just away to get help for a few months.. i'm so stuck.
P.s i did refer him to anger management class rehab type thing but they didn't do much, he didnt' want to do it, went once and they couldnt make him go back or even tried to when i rang them up asking them to please make him go