Justanotherguy
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My ex gf and I (broke up 3 months ago) are still good friends. But recently ive been trying to distance myself and only text her maybe once a day, and she does the same (whatever i do, she tries to beat me). Funnily enough the one text she decides to send me is about my best friend she has a crush on.
i get angry and tell her i dont want to hear this stuff blah blah blah fuck off im trying to sleep.
its like we let everything build up and then it all comes out at once. Its ALWAYS through text, which shits me, and even if i 'win' the argument through logic, i damage our friendship/relationship.
it was the same way when we were together, we just dont talk about things that bother us. Then a party or event would come around (usually involving a drink or two). and all the sudden i would cop the 'i need to talk to you' type deal.
its not that we dont get along (as bf/gf or as friends) we quite enjoy each others company. Its just failure to communicate that has ruined our relationship/friendship, but i dont know how to go about changing it. Any suggestions?
i get angry and tell her i dont want to hear this stuff blah blah blah fuck off im trying to sleep.
its like we let everything build up and then it all comes out at once. Its ALWAYS through text, which shits me, and even if i 'win' the argument through logic, i damage our friendship/relationship.
it was the same way when we were together, we just dont talk about things that bother us. Then a party or event would come around (usually involving a drink or two). and all the sudden i would cop the 'i need to talk to you' type deal.
its not that we dont get along (as bf/gf or as friends) we quite enjoy each others company. Its just failure to communicate that has ruined our relationship/friendship, but i dont know how to go about changing it. Any suggestions?