Oral Sex...It didnt really feel good?

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everyone talks about how good it is but when my bf did it to me it didnt feel good..it was my first time..will it get better?? is it normal??
 
nah some people just really dont enjoy it... be honest with him dont suffer through it.
that or he is really bad at it you have to work out what feels good before he can make you feel good.
 
some guys just dont know how to do it right, I have never had a man do it to me and have it feel good.
 
I'm guessing that either you were just REALLY nervous or your bf isreally bad at oral sex.
 
Women have a harder time enjoying oral sex than men. This happens for a number of reasons.

The least not being that the male has to be good at it for it to 'get the job done' more often than not. It takes practice for a guy to learn how to do this right.

Also, women are much more self-concious about their downstairs than males when it comes to oral sex. Do I smell? Am I too hairy? Can he breath ok? Is he enjoying it? This distracts from your ability to enjoy cunnilingus.

While it may simply be that oral sex is just not for you, it is more likely that there are other issues impeding your enjoyment of it.

Practice makes perfect, my hubby is very good at it- now.
 
That depends on a lot of things. You say it was your first time. Was it also his first time? If so, he may just not be very good at it, next time if he does something that Does feel good make sure you let him know.
 
tell him exactly where and how you want to be pleased. best to have an empty stomach and to be clean. if you shave some of the hair off it will seem more sensitive.
think like the most erotic thoughts you can while he is doing it..
if it gets better then awesome, and if not, it may be him that is not pleasing you. maybe a girl would please you more or maybe just a different guy...
so try the suggestions and good luck to you!
 
Depends if he knows how to do it. He needs to know where your clit is and what to do with it when he finds it.
 
are you a chick?

maybe you're just not into guys, or that specfic guy because I think regardless of how "good it felt", if you're truely into the person it'd be great
 
i like it...lol
well maybe yu just dont like it everyone is diff yu might like it later dont even worry about that stuff its not important in a relationship!!
 
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