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Ravenberri
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So, I've never had a problem before with the guys I've dated. They always had a few tricks up their sleves, or it was easier for me to tell them what was good, or something.
The guy I'm dating right now it just seems so much more difficult to tell him what I like. It's like he has almost no intuition about what feels good for me, he's very 'mechanical' about sex - more focused on how the body functions then on my specific likes and dislikes. I get really frustraited trying to tell him what I like though, I'm scared that if I tell him something feels good, he'll go ovarboard! If I tell him something doesn't feel good, I'm afraid he'll be discouraged! He knows I feel like this, and reassures me that he won't react either way, but then I get flustered and can't think of what to tell him.
The other thing is.. well, I don't know what to do to HIM. No one's ever gotten him off - he has to do the deed himself if he wants to have an O, and it's really discouraging.
And I don't know how to enjoy prolonged sex, I've never liked it when it lasts too long, an hour at most for me and he could do a 4 day marathon!
And that's what every other girl wants.
Anyways, my question is, does anyone have good links to informative websites? I'm not looking for porno or anything dirty like that, just advice! I'm a little bewildered!
The guy I'm dating right now it just seems so much more difficult to tell him what I like. It's like he has almost no intuition about what feels good for me, he's very 'mechanical' about sex - more focused on how the body functions then on my specific likes and dislikes. I get really frustraited trying to tell him what I like though, I'm scared that if I tell him something feels good, he'll go ovarboard! If I tell him something doesn't feel good, I'm afraid he'll be discouraged! He knows I feel like this, and reassures me that he won't react either way, but then I get flustered and can't think of what to tell him.
The other thing is.. well, I don't know what to do to HIM. No one's ever gotten him off - he has to do the deed himself if he wants to have an O, and it's really discouraging.
And I don't know how to enjoy prolonged sex, I've never liked it when it lasts too long, an hour at most for me and he could do a 4 day marathon!
And that's what every other girl wants.
Anyways, my question is, does anyone have good links to informative websites? I'm not looking for porno or anything dirty like that, just advice! I'm a little bewildered!