On the third date we ended up having sex- drunk, awkward, not-so-protected sex. Help?

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So on my third date with this guy I like, I went back to his place and had a few drinks. And I know that by me saying "sure, let's go to your place after dinner" means to him "yes, she's gonna have sex with me!", but I was an idiot and didn't make the connection. I thought we'd just chill and make out or something but whatever- point is, we had sex.

But I was more drunk than he was. A LOT more drunk than he was. And the sex was awkward and weird and I had to stop him because I learned that he didn't have a condom with him.

Then we sat in bed cuddling and had this weird long chat and how I was saying I was uncomfortable and blah blah blah.

My question is, WHAT NOW? He texted me a few days after and we sort of talked about it... but not really.

I like him. A lot. And I don't want this one stupid night of me getting drunk to affect what could be a great thing.

How do I talk to him now? Should I text him/call him? What do I say? *I really don't want to sound like a dramatic over-emotional girl* either... I did enough of that the night we had sex! So how do I talk to him without being a bitchy overdramatic girl about it?

help please!!
Oh and to make things worse... I don't even *remember* all of it. Cuz I was drunk obviously. I want to let him know that I don't remember all of it, but how do I do that without sounding like an alcoholic looking for an excuse?
***correction: he texted me THE DAY AFTER, not a few days after... this only happened like 3 nights ago
 
well tex him and tell him whats up like tell him how you feel if he cares he will still stay around if he just wanted what every guy wants then he wont ever kick it with you again
 
if you cant put piece to piece together then not to sure if you are really ready to be in this kinda relationship. he just wanted something and might have known that you could be an easy girl to give out
 
I think the relationship is over...he got you drunk and had a piece of @ss. He got what he wanted and now he can move on to the next girl.

Oh well..a lesson learned here.
 
Doesnt sound good to me. I would run away embarrassed. I waited 4 months to sleep with my current boyfriend. And two weeks to touch his dick. it gets them very intrigued especially if they are surrounded by plenty of women willing to put out on the drop of a hat
 
Whats wrong? Your supposed to have sex after the 3rd date. Bring a condom next time and dont get so drunk. Forget the first night... dont bring it up. Let him know that you enjoyed the night and cant wait to see him again.
 
LOOOOL yeah text him saying you missed your month, oh wait, that will send him running..
 
say things got outta hand the other night but you do like him and would like to take it slow.
 
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