okay, Me and my girlfriend need some help.?

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Me and my girlfriend need help we want to do anything but sex. like i have fingered her a few times. and she wants to give me head but she thinks it will be too awkward, any tips?And any other suggestions are appreciated.
 
Oral sex is great!! Awkward? Maybe at first but once you get into the swing of things, you'll be doing 69ers while hanging from the lights! Sex toys are fun too but If you wanna get really erotic.....3 words...chocolate body paint!
 
Well, that is sex. If things feel awkward, then its awkward and you probably shouldn't be doing those things until you are more comfortable with each other.
 
Just be open for ideas and be spontaneous.The way I see it is-Don't be afraid to try new things.If you don't like what you're doing,You can stop,Or just not do it a second time!
 
If you love eachother then it shouldnbt be awkward and i dont mean that in a mean way but if your going to do that stuff then you should feel confortable doing it. MAybe you should wait awhile or maybe talk about it soo it wont be awkward. I think its good you guys arent having sex too good job lol!
 
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Oral is still sex, but I'm going to assume you're referring to vaginal sex. Anyway, you both have to decide you're ready to take your relationship to the next level like that. Guys have more testosterone, so any kind of action is usually okay. As for girls, it can be easier said then done. If she's never done it before or this is new for this relationship, she can be very nervous and will need time to loosen up and gain some confidence. Don't pressure her to do anything though, let her come to you. Tell her that you're ready whenever she is and reassure her that whatever she does is great. Telling a girl she sucked and it was horrible is nerve-wrecking. Even if she is bad at something, try saying something like, "that was great, but I'd like it even more if you..." and so on. Be sensitive, these topics can be difficult for many people. Try being romantic, things will just happen on its own. Good music, flower pettles, candle light setting, being alone, sharing your feelings...I'm sure it'll be less awkward and she'll open up more.
 
You should be very blunt about it. Just tell her you want to have sex. And come on let's be serious there's nothing bad with giving head. If you feel awkward do it at the same time. You eat her out and she sucks you off. it'll be an interesting journey after the few couple first times. its nothing to be ashamed about. everyone does it. especially if you guys are in a relationship. nobody needs to know. so if anything just work your magic at first and hopefully she'll take over from there.
 
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