Ok well I have a creepy sort-of-friend?

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Gloria

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Well I'm 14 and I have no experience but from what I know (not very much), he seems to want to own you, or maybe he has an unhealthy/unbalanced view/attitude towards relationships. It sure is NOT a healthy relationship- that much I can say.
If I were you I'd go to my parents, or if that's too embarrassing, I'd tell my BEST best friend and ask for advice. I don't really know the situation over there so I can only answer in general.
STAY AWAY from that creep. You're only one year older than me and I don't really think you'd really be ready to be pregnant right?..

That's pretty much I have to offer... Good luck!
 
He always tells me he loves me (LOVE love) and I tell him he doesn't because I don't really have anything else to say. He says he wants to have $ex with me and that he wants to "put a smile on my pretty face". He is a funny guy but he obsesses over me sometimes and when he does it, it creeps me out because I know him as a funny kind of person but idk it just makes me feel uncomfortable. When I say I feel sore he says let me kiss it better and he says he "worships the ground I walk on"

He just does it when no one else is around and he whispers it to me...so idk who to talk to

hes 18 im 15
I know...sometimes he corners me in and starts acting like he wants "something" from me and I don't feel safe around him (he is attractive but he's not my type) and idk what to do we used to be close
 
sounds a bit dodgy to me. it would probably be ok if he was your age but if he had sex with you it would be illegal and he would get arrested. he is 18 and you are 15. THAT AINT GONNA WORK. tell him to leave you alone and that he is too old for you
 
Very creepy, very fresh. Tell him to knock It off or you don't want to be friends. Do NOT seek this kind of attention or put up with it. It's not respectful of you.
 
Very creepy, very fresh. Tell him to knock It off or you don't want to be friends. Do NOT seek this kind of attention or put up with it. It's not respectful of you.
 
Very creepy, very fresh. Tell him to knock It off or you don't want to be friends. Do NOT seek this kind of attention or put up with it. It's not respectful of you.
 
i was in this exact. same. situation. very, very recently, except im 15 and he's 22. he thought i was brilliant, a genius, he got touchy-feely, he wanted to see me more often. and he's a good guy and a funny guy essentially and we used to be close, too. he was there when i overdosed, he called my parents, i talked to him through some shit. but when it comes to this kind of thing..dont give in. i made that mistake. i was playful and i told him he didnt really miss me or whatever, and one day in his room things got out of hand. he wanted to be close to me, he kissed my scars, touched me, eventually couldnt..contain himself. i dont really want to talk about it because its a horrible, horrible memory and it's worse because there were so many feelings involved and i didnt know where i was or what to do. my advice is to not fall into that trap where you have to be supernice and agreeable because you owe him something. because if you owe him anything, it's the truth that he's not your type. just bring up in casual conversation that you like some dude, and if he urges something..just tell him straight out. dont tell him "it's too complicated", just tell him you can't deal with this from him . try ignoring him - but i did this and it didnt work, he just asked me why i wasnt picking up his calls and that didn't i want to hang out with him because he really wanted to see me, etc, and i told him i'd been sick or something because i didnt want to hurt him. but just trust me, here; dont be afraid of that. hurt him, a little. i was afraid to and now everything is just royally fucked up and there is so much damage that it's incomprehensible and just..please dont repeat what i got myself into.

best of luck, man..email me. xx
 
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