Ok. This girl and me have been dating for 2 and half months and now she wants to

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have sex what should be the b? Shes seen me and ive seen her but we never got into things and now she wants to but idk if its the right time. We are both 12th grade students.
 
So just wait for the right moment, and then you can pretty much go from there, as long as the place, and time is right. Why not go for it ?
 
Most people dont even wait that long so congrats on that. I know I met my bf and slep with him like that next week,lol. but if you dont feel comfortable with it yet then tell her you want to wait until you can give her a romantic evening and then do it. At least that way you dont make her real mad and she will kinda be wooed by it and give you more time. Take her to a movie some dinner and be a real gentleman about it, then sleep with her when you feel the time is right. If you are ready then go for it, no harm in it.
 
If you don't want to have have sex with her then don't. If you think that it is too soon then tell her what you feel. It is okay to make your girl work for you or to get you.
 
I think you're kind of young. Most kids are pretty irresponcible at that age.

All I can say, is if you end up having sex, make sure it's protected.
 
go ahead and have sex alot of kids have it before 12th grade just do it at her house when she wants it
 
you kinda answered it yourself there to be honest

if you say your not sure about it being the right time, then your absolutely right its not

when the time comes it feels right, not something you should be unsure about
 
whhhaa.. you know i think shes only following the crowd becayse everyone and their mommas at this age has done it.
dude i'm ur age and still a virgin girls hot girls like me hahah nah jokes.
sometimes want a guy whos still a virgin when their a little bit older.
if your really not feeling it and think its waaaay to soon, because it is.
tell her look maybe when the times right.

or if you really want to do it just cus... then whatever do the deed.

but you have to feel wholeheartedly about these things and if shes rushing you already into doing it and its only been 2 months then sounds like shes not a keeper sounds like she just wants sex.

for alot of guys thats what they want too. so it doesnt matter.

idk good luck in whichever you choose.
 
if it's alright with the girl then go for it but if you feel like your not ready then just let her know..sex can go either way like it can either ruin a good relationship or it can make it better..like i been with my girl for a yr and we still haven't had sex its sucks a lil but i grew up a lot and realized it isn't all about sex so just make sure your ready for it
 
The answer is no. You're not ready, so don't do it because you feel the pressure.
 
no! she's just h0rny! eventually she will regret it and blame you. talke things slowly! =D if she wants sex that soon then the relationship isn't going to last...
 
If you want to completely ruin the long term potential for happiness---then go ahead and have sex. It may not happen instantly but your relationship will crumble like an old brick building.
 
The decision is both of yours if you are not comfortable with the idea as of yet then sit down and talk to her about it tell her that you don't think this is the right time and you want to wait.
 
wow! you should wait for a while. I mean two months isn't that long. plus you might want to wait until you know if she's the one or not.

message back =)
 
I say if you're uncomfortable enough to ask for outside help, then you're probably not ready. I would pass on this one.
 
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