Ok so this is a real question,no joke, please answer it?

xobella

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So im dating this guy, and we havent gotten intimate, i've honestly been thinking about it a lot lately and were ready, i was really turned on, ive been thinking about it a lot lately. We were supposed to hang out today, he cant. I wanted it to be our first time today because i wanted it really bad. Buttt he said he has to be home because he doesnt know whether hes doing somthing w/ his aunt and uncle for labor day and that his parents are napping and im really pissed because if his parents are napping they obv arent doign anything right.... well anyway i feel like crying because i miss him and i dont get to see him every day because he works a lot and is in college. I have needs too if you know what i mean, i need sex. Not an addict or anything but i need sex. Honestly what human being doesnt and today im just really pissed and i feel like crying, because i miss him and need it. What should i do?...........................
 
Invite friends over or watch a funny movie. Check into his schedule and see if there is any time free that the both of you can spend together. Don't feel down. If you continue being a good girlfriend then you'll eventually be able to have sex.
 
Hun relax, you need to be patient about these things. Please understand that sex can't be rushed because you need to be safe. Just be patient and you'll see him again.
 
First, just slow down and take a deep breath. Everything will be ok. Correction: everyone does not need sex but everyone wants sex. Appearantly he is making up excuses because none of those are real. He probably isn't ready to have sex yet and knows you'll pressure him into it. I'd say back off a little bit and let it happen naturally. It will be alot better that way.
 
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