OK so he just wants sex! Is there any way that i could get him to want more?

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narnia

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Ok so it is clear to everyone that he is just after a shag! So is there any way in which i might be able to get him to want more. Problem is that i actually like the guy!
 
here's the thing with guys,
guys like challenges. he has to work hard to get to u. u shouldnt give him everything easily, then he'll never be attached to u. usually a guy gets attached to a girl when he works so hard to get to her and still at the end he doesnt get everything...
if u try to do this and this guy isnt willing to work hard for u, then he's not worth it. don't have sex with him as a desperate move to make him fall for u cz he wont, he'll just use u and throw u away.
so what u should do is: tease him! tease him for months! if he sticks around, then he'll become attached to u. if he doesnt, say bye bye and move on! he's not worth ur time
 
It depends if he really likes you too hun - if he does, he'll want to see you and do things properly.
You could try asking him out on a date, but make it clear that does not mean you'll sleep with him.

You can try and get him to want more, but how would you feel if in the meantime, he sleeps with a few other girls because he just wants sex? See what I mean? I just get the feeling he would do that. You'll need to be honest with him about what you want.
 
Why do you like him so much when its obvious he's only after one thing? He obviously has no respect for you, and if you let him use you....then you have no respect for yourself.
 
i think that as women we always think we can change a man but really we cant if he's getting the milk for free why buy the cow
if he truly wants something more than sex he will pursue it truthfully
 
Don't give it up. There will be nothing for him to aim for otherwise.
No point lowering your standards, hold out for what you want. If he doesn't want more, that's his loss.
Someone out there will appreciate the whole package, and you will respect them more for doing so.
 
Why do you like him so much when its obvious he's only after one thing? He obviously has no respect for you, and if you let him use you....then you have no respect for yourself.
 
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