ok i just lost my baby in june 2008 my sister in law is pregnant should i give her a

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baby shower? i lost my baby in june of 2008 to a cord accident my sister in law is pregnant and is due June 1st her sisters say they cant afford to do a shower right now should i give her one given my circumstances
 
So sorry to hear about your loss.
I think it would be a great idea if you can give her a baby shower. If you are OK with it, I can't see any problem with it. I think she will very much appreciate it.
 
I agree that if you think you are strong enough and you want to throw her one then go ahead
 
The fact that you are asking means you are second guessing it. It shows that eventhough you may not feel bad or not want to feel bad your subconcious feels bad, so think of this, you're in the middle of everything and everyone talking about babies and seeing all the tiny clothes imagine it..... Do you feel bad? I don't want to sound terrible but I definitly would. I would probably cry right in front of everyone.

I'm so sorry about your loss, I don't even have words.
 
i am so sorry about your baby. You should do what you feel in your heart. If you feel in your heart you should give her a shower then do that.
 
well if you want to then yes. If you feel bad she can't have one and you like her and wan't her to have one and you also have the money to do so then why not. I know you might be going through alot but its not right to take it out on her. If you are going crazy and can't handle life right now and need time to heal them maybe not. If your just trying to get over it still and don't want to deal with the stress of planning something like that then give the money to her sister so they can do it and if you want you could help them a little bit intill you feel unable to and then let them take it from there. im sorry you lost your baby.
 
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