ok, so my girlfriend and myself met on the greyhound. i went to ohio and she went to idaho. she came to ohio to live with me a month later and we were extremely happy. we both know we are truly in love. with out a doubt. she never drank before but started drinking in idaho and had sex with somebody there while she was wasted, they kinda took advantage of her. i understand what that's like because while she was in idaho i did the exact same thing. meaning i had sex with a girl who is 30 while i was drunk, i am 21.
we both completely forgive each other but the BIG problem is that she is pregnant. and she is back in idaho staying with the baby's dad's family. we know this because of the ultra sound.
she does not want to be with him and wants to be with me. i am in the process of moving to arizona and to make things more difficult, the dad does want to be a part of the baby's life. he seems like a good enough guy but not the right guy for her.
she doesn't have anything going for her in idaho and i will have family and have things going pretty soon in arizona.
she wants to move out and live with me, but she does not want to separate the baby from its dad as she never got to know hers.
we both know that we were dirt bags but want to start fresh and i don't mind being a step father, even after i found out the baby isn't mine, i still love it and her.
what are our options?
life would be easier is arizona for us. but then there is the issue with the dad.
thanks Alto. i feel like i am going crazy and could really use the advice
we both completely forgive each other but the BIG problem is that she is pregnant. and she is back in idaho staying with the baby's dad's family. we know this because of the ultra sound.
she does not want to be with him and wants to be with me. i am in the process of moving to arizona and to make things more difficult, the dad does want to be a part of the baby's life. he seems like a good enough guy but not the right guy for her.
she doesn't have anything going for her in idaho and i will have family and have things going pretty soon in arizona.
she wants to move out and live with me, but she does not want to separate the baby from its dad as she never got to know hers.
we both know that we were dirt bags but want to start fresh and i don't mind being a step father, even after i found out the baby isn't mine, i still love it and her.
what are our options?
life would be easier is arizona for us. but then there is the issue with the dad.
thanks Alto. i feel like i am going crazy and could really use the advice