Dang Kit that sucks but you shouldn't feel bad if noone told you that he was dien, who knows mabey you could go see him within the next three weeks. Also doctors just do a ball park guess when they tell people who long they have to live, they told one of my friends 3 years ago that he was going to die within a month and hes still alive and kicken, so ya never know he could be around for a while.