Non-Christians,What about the sex talk?

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I am a Christian and was raised a Christian. For me and my family you wait to have sex for when you are married. So, my Q is, when you had the sex talk with your child what was it like? Was it the same, or did you let them know multiple partners are ok, or only have sex sober? I'm just really curious. Thanks for any responses!
Trukk, I waited till I got married.
Also, I'm not judging! I am just curious as to besides the biological part you deal with it. I didn't know if non-Christians still believed you should wait till marriage.
 
My kids are still young so I have a ways to go with that but even though I am not Christian does not mean that I am going to okay my children to have multiple sex partners, disrespect a lady or anything negative like that. I am sure most people no matter what religion they are are going to feel the same way. I think religion has nothing to do with how you want your kids to turn out.
 
You would let your child know how the sexual parts of a male and female work, and you would advise them not to make any decisions out of lust or decisions that could hurt them.
 
In India sex is still a taboo and is not talked in a home. Generally children learn about it by their friends, surroundings,pet animals etc.
 
I'll tell my kids what COULD happen if you do this and that, but I never tell them not to. I mean honestly, no matter what you say to a teenager, they are gonna do it anyways. Especially sex. I mean c'mon... how many people didn't get laid when they were that age?

Oh, and just because your totally blind towards your faith, doesn't mean we, who don't believe in your crap, don't have enough sense to raise our kids right. Atleast I won't be shoving a useless book down their throat and wasting their precious time by going to service.
 
Not yet... they're still young... but I've got plans...

To my daughter, try not to come home from school pregnant...

To my son, try not to bring a girl home from school pregnant.

Simple enough... right?
 
Sexuality is a topic that must be broached by reference to the individual and unique character of your child. One child is shy and does not wish to discuss the issue, the other does want to know more about the act.

In both cases, the policy must at least cover the following things:

1. One must never lie to get sex, deception is cruel and your partners must be honest;

2. Always use protection. I always highlight the devastating potential for sexually transmitted disease.

3. Never fear talking to me, or their mother, about how they feel or think about sex.

4. Finally, never take it too seriously. Human sexuality is a chaotic event and should not be considered as the be all and end all of a relationship.

Thus far, they have never had problems with sex.
 
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