Well you know how to fix them right?
Just post some pictures around of a chick blowing a horse and all is well.
Victory is yours.
I used to care about things like your list but after a while I realized that the more I cared about why other people did asshole things the faster my descent into antisocial, shut in asshole was becoming. So I try to ignore it so that I can let it take me slowly and peacefully.
Right now I can still stand to talk to new people every once in a while with some expectation that they won't be a total waste of resources.