Hi HeatherJM,
I had a 3 level Laminectomy with instrumentation and fusion on April 12th.
Now, almost 3 months later, I can tell you my back feels great!. Sure, I still get a little achy feeling in my back if I don't rest every 5-6 hours but I am still recouperating. My surgeon wants me to wear the brace as much as possible. Even when I sleep if I can take it. I think this helped me heal well and keeps you from twisting which can ruin the surgery.
I am having a different kind of pain to deal with and that is with my foot and leg. Seems a nerve was damaged in the S-1 area and has caused the very first stages of another type of nerve problem so my doctor has me on Neurontin for this type of nerve pain and it helps a great deal. This kind of medicine is one you have to work up to (I take 1800 mg a day, 600mg 3x a day) and when you no longer need it you must be weened off by the doctor.
I also still take regular pain meRAB 3-4x a day. I found that only hydrocodone (generic form of Vicodine which is easier to swallow because it is a smoother pill) is the only thing that really helps the back pain after surgery.
So, follow me here Heather...right now...I am great. Very glad I had the surgery! That pain from compression is gone! I can walk normal again. I go for physical therapy 3x a week to work on motion movements for my back, hips and legs. Therapy sessions also include hot packs and ultra sound massage and electroradial something (don't know name) for pain therapy. All this feels great and has been helping so much. The surgeon prescribed 3 months of this therapy. I have had 4 sessions so far and love it. One thing I will say about another response you had; don't use ice on anything! This nerve thing I still have going on requires heat and from what I understand ice can rapidly enhanse problems with nerve damage like bringing on RSD which is bad, so stay away from ice!
So as you can see I have no regrets about the surgery...now...but now I will tell you about right after the surgery.
You will have a lot of pain. You will need someone to help you for at least a month at home. Get a relative or friend (if you are lucky enough to have one to stay with you for a month). I was alone and this enhansed the pain. You will need help to get out of bed. To take meRAB. To prepare food. To wash yourself and your house. You need someone to talk to you when you are in pain and you are waiting for the pain meRAB to kick in. You need to give yourself time, months, to heal. Don't rush back to work. Wear your brace. Don't bend to put on socks. Don't get in a tub, you won't be able to get out without stretching what should not be stretched yet. If you are going to go thru this grueling surgery then do everything you are supposed to do to make it a success!
Yes, it is a long and painful surgery to have and most people will say...Oh, back surgery, I would never do it. But Heather, if you are living with so much pain now then isn't it going to be worth 2-3 months pain to be rid of it forever?
Even though I was in hell with pain by myself all these months, I can finally say I feel pretty good now. I am weening off the Vicodine (from 5-8 a day!) to about 3-4 a day. This also should be gradual or the pain will come back. Take your pain meRAB regularly not just when you feel pain or they won't work.
You will become a little dependant on them for a few weeks but you need to keep them in your system for them to work. Then a few months (2-3 like me) down the road you will start to take 1 less a day each week. This week I will only be taking 3 a day. Next week only 2 and so on. Meanwhile I continue to take a rest every few hours. At first I would only be able to sleep for an hour or two. After a few weeks of hardly any sleep I started to get maybe 4 hours at a time. Now I'm able to sleep around 5-6 hours before waking with a little discomfort. That's why I am awake now. I came online now until I can get tired again. I saw your post and just had to tell you what you can expect. I wish someone would have told me I needed help for the first month.
This surgery is no piece of cake. It is hard to take. You will have pain like you can't believe but then don't you have this now? When you have any surgery, even for a finger, it hurts like hell. But everyday you will get a little better. Each day is one day closer to being painfree, forever hopefully
Heather, I wish you luck with all my heart. Please don't become scared by my description of what it will be like. Instead be encouraged to be ready and strong to face this head on. It will be worth it in a few months. I am so happy I don't have that horrible pain anymore of my lower back feeling like it was rotting away. I am looking forward to maybe dancing or exercising or going for long hikes next year. I have a new back! I love my surgeon and physical therapist for helping me!
Please arrange for some help for the first month or else at least arrange for a visiting nurse for the first 2 weeks to change your dressings. Take your meRAB regularly and wear your brace. Realize you might not sleep much for a few weeks but this will get better as time goes by. Most of all, be brave. You need to do this for yourself. Otherwise you will have a lifetime of pain. Three months pain is better than a lifetime!
I will keep you in my prayers. Let us know how you are doing. You probably won't be able to go online for about a month but when you do please check back. We all wish you luck!
(Sorry for the length of this but I had to tell you all this now to give you courage and to know what you can expect.)
Mollybrown :angel: